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24 Tips on How to Attract Men

Updated on December 16, 2016

Ways to Make Him Want to Get Closer

Making sure you look good all the time is not vain, it is essential. Even men now strive to look good, let alone women. Unkempt hair, rough nails, discolored teeth, and body odors have no place on modern woman. Today’s woman should endeavor to look well groomed. Good news is, it doesn’t cost a fortune to look good. There is no doubt that physical appearance plays a big role in the way other people perceive us. With these impressions being somewhat skin-deep, it pays to look younger, or at well kept, whether in the workplace or in the dating arena. So don’t let yourself go if you are going to want to get hooked with someone any time soon or to keep the one you already have.

Men get physically attracted first to well-groomed, clean looking women, no man will want to be associated with an unkempt woman no matter her natural beauty.

Tips below are to help you looking and feeling your best, and he will be sure to want to you like a metal to a magnet or stick with you.

Update your hairstyle

Consider updating your hairstyle every now and then. Your hairdo is what people first notice when they look at you. It frames your face so choosing the best hairstyle for your facial features is important. Ask your hairdresser the style she/he thinks will be great on you. Most hairdressers are trained to distinguish the best hairstyle for various face shapes. You can also ask a few friends who seem to have an eye for style to give you their opinion.

Get manicure/pedicure

A man a loves a woman with well-manicured fingernails; as well as pedicured toes nails. Manicure/pedicure should be a part of a woman’s grooming habits. And it wouldn’t hurt to get a professional pedicure and/or manicure once in a while, especially if you love to wear sandals. Dirty, long fingernails require no explanation as to why they are bad. If your budget or schedule permits, try a monthly manicure/pedicure. Do have someone take care of this for you.

Work out

Shedding some weight is no longer only beauty tips these is now the advice experts –especially cardiologists –hand out to their patient daily. Choose an activity you enjoy. So many options are at your disposal. The key is to pick one, get started, and just do it. You’ll be amazed how much better you’ll feel physically, mentally, and emotionally after a hearty workout. A good body can go a long way, it gives the attention of the people around you and you will be physically fit as well.

Ensure your clothes fit your body

The key to a good wardrobe is not having too many clothes, but having the right clothes. This is a big one, as no matter what your shape is, the right fit makes everything look so much better. To find your best clothes, hold up different colored outfits as you stand in front of a mirror and see the ones the best fit you. Style is another matter. Sometimes you see an outfit in a magazine or on a friend and assume it would be good on you, but it might not necessarily be. Have your own style that flatters your feminine figure. What fits your personality. “Third-tenths of good looks are due to nature, seven-tenths to dress,” says a Chinese proverb.


It has been said that posture is important. You create a sense of confidence and pride when standing tall, showing everyone you are secure in the woman you are. This is why many women go for high-heeled shoes. If they are funky then see to it that they are in a good condition.

Apply makeup discreetly

Makeup is a tool used to enhance and draw out your God-given beauty. It’s not meant to alter your look completely. Try to reexamine your makeup routine from time to time and stay current. Most women use the same soap on their body that they use on their face. Most body soaps are too strong for the face. You must invest in a cleanser that is just for the face (as facial skin is much more sensitive than the skin on the body).

Trim the eyebrows

It is recommended that you get them professionally cleaned (not shaped) to open up the eyes. Remember to brush them up before you leave for the day as this opens up the eye, keeping the face more alert.

Remember less is more when it comes to fragrance

It’s all right to smell good, but everyone doesn’t have to smell it. Fragrance is such a personal preference, and you really must find the one that works best for you. Just remember not to bathe in it.


Carry bags that match with your shoes or your clothes. There are many trendy bags to choose from. Try to be current.

Sleep well

Get about 8-10 hours sleep daily –it will keep you fresh and reduce the chances of dark circles around your eyes.

Pamper your skin

Sales of women’s skin-care items have risen dramatically over the past few years, with an increasing number of products from which to choose. Companies are realizing that women who care about the way they look need different products, which is why many companies specifically geared towards different women’s skin seemingly popping up everywhere. Don’t use just any product on your skin. Begin first by knowing your skin type weather it is dry, oily, normal or combination skin. All these are listed on products leaflets. So it is advisable you read the directions on products before you buy, that way, you get to use the best product for your skin, to achieve that glow.

You can also take care of your skin from the inside. Anti-aging experts say, you can keep your skin young and healthy by eating certain foods. So eat well. Such foods would be salmon, vegetables, -are also high in antioxidants and of course drink lots of water

Keep your smile bright

A smile that sparkles is extremely important. A good smile can infuse a woman with great beauty. So if your teeth lack luster, as your dentist about the best options for you. Additionally, there are many at-home whitening products that can brighten up your smile quickly and relatively inexpensively. You’ll find that the joy you bring to others through your smile will give you an incredible lift too. Certainly we can’t smile all the time; there are times to mourn and to be solemn.

A pleasing voice

The woman having a well-controlled, pleasant tone has a decided advantage over those who lack that particular quality though possessing equal advantages in other qualities. The value of a vibrant, resonant, soft and flexible voice can scarcely be over-estimated.

Keep your breath clean

It doesn’t matter if your teeth are not perfectly straight and white, but please keep them clean. It is rather unappealing to talk to someone and he sees built up plaque or food stuck between your teeth. Picture this scenario, you are charming looking woman, good looks, clean outfit and charming smile and you saw a man you wished was yours. You say to yourself if he comes to right now, I’ll go with him wherever. And like a dream he’s standing right in front of you, but with the mere mention of ‘hello’, you spoil the nice air with your foul breath. I tell you, that’s the end of that fantasy.

“Please, shut your smelly mouth,” a man once told his girlfriend. You may not immediately realize the power of this particular statement. But, it had a profound effect on the girl and completely destroyed her self-esteem. She suffered from acute depression, worrying about the statement and scared that everyone would have noticed that her mouth smelled.

Endeavor to keep your breath fresh, if you have a problem with that, see a dentist for advice on what to do. On the other hand there are lots of mouth spray/mouth wash you can buy off the rack to help your breath fresh and sweet all the time.

When you are dating a guy and love is in the air, there are other things apart from improving your look, you can do in order to draw him closer to you. Love is something you have to feed. If you let it just sit there and expect it to grow on its own, it won’t happen. The manner in which you smile, the way you wear your hair, the sort of clothing you choose, the body you’ve developed through exercise and eating habits, help the bring men closer, of course. But as you improve your outside packaging, don’t lose sight of the fact that the greatest beauty of all is the beauty that radiates from within. A godly, gracious, loving, honest, and positive woman will attract a man like butterfly is attracted by honey.


Every man enjoys hearing that he is the only one. He’ll enjoy hearing that you do not plan on going out and finding any other guy. So, if you want to draw him closer to you, remind him how he is the only one on earth for you.


Honesty is the habitual observance of truth. Tell him the truth. Truth is always consistent with itself, and needs nothing to help it out. Honesty is the most important virtues in character. Let him feel as if he’s the luckiest man in the world. Honesty is bright and shining quality on the party of anyone who strives to make the most of life’s possibilities.

Show him respect

Respect is denoted by the kindness and reverence that we show toward another person. It means we hold someone in high esteem. If you want to draw the man in closer to you or retain him, then you need to show him respect. Cook him a good dinner and let him know that you truly care for his needs. Of course, I’m not insinuating that you need to be his doormat, but I am saying that you should be respectful to him.


Kindness is one of the purest traits that find a place in the human heart. It gives us friends wherever we may chance to wander. So be kind.

Extol his virtues

Virtue must have its admirers, and firmness of principle, both moral and religious, will ever command the proudest expressions of praise of the intelligent woman. Let him know just how proud you are of him. It pays off to say this more than once. Some guys really like to be reminded every now and then that their girl is truly proud of them for doing the things they do in life

Don’t be a gold-digger

Some girls out there are just gold-digger. Some women track rich men down and use them just because they have extra money to spend. He may spend money on you because he has it, but may never take you serious after all, it is money you want. So, if you would like to draw him closer to you, make sure you do not use him just for his money. In fact, feel free to pay for some date nights here and there.

Tell him how you love him

Love, in one form or another, is the ruling element in life. It is the primary source from which springs all that possesses any real value to man. If you really want to draw him in, let him know just how much you love him. Don’t just tell him, but show him how deep your love is for him. This is a great way to draw him closer to you.


One who says and does the right thing at the right time without offending others has this remarkable and rare personality trait of tactfulness. So cultivate the art of pleasing; say the right thing or say nothing.


Tolerance stands high on the list of the traits of a winning and pleasing personality. Without tolerance regardless of the number of other virtues you possess, you could not possibly have a magnetic personality.

Tell him how hard he works

When a guy works hard, they enjoy hearing that they work hard. So, I believe it would be a good idea to tell the guy how hard they work.


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    • Chuksm profile imageAUTHOR

      Anthony Modungwo 

      4 years ago from Benin

      Thank you Tina Asalina for your comment. You should know that there are certain areas of your personality and life that you will have to improve to have a happy marriage or reach any of your goals. Recognizing your personal strengths and weakness is challenge to everyone, but until you list each and every one and recognize what are your weaknesses and strengths you will not be able to improve in what you are weak on and/or successfully use what you are very good at. Recognizing areas of weakness with the desire to improve on them will help you to become a better person. If you want to excel at anything, it’s not enough to fix your weaknesses. You also need to leverage your strengths. Before you can leverage your strengths, you need to figure out what they are.

    • Tina Asalina profile image


      4 years ago from Alabama

      Too many requests, people are supposed to love you for who you are.


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