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Have No Regrets to Feel Good about Yourself
Fake People and Regrets
· Fake people think different and feel good about them.
It is difficult to live with certain people, and all that one has to put up with, my biggest regret is meeting fake people.
Sometimes such people are just cruel in their thoughts and this can make one feel disappointed.
I regret being with fake people, I met them a while ago and somehow couldn't see them for who they really were,until I discovered their true personalities in other occasions.
They covered their false lives so well. Each time when invited to their home I felt the uneasiness thinking not much of it after all they were friendly in the beginning of our meeting.
Believe it or not, I still continued hoping things would get better, or change and that we could all be good friends and family together.
· Friendships are made, and broken, built, and rebuilt, no matter which way you see it, something has to come of it.
When I first met the family I was not sure of how to present myself in their presence. After all these years nothing has changed.
I saw many different people and had noticed something about their behaviors.
They were not as social with us in the presence of others.
Their friendliness pops up when not in the presence of others. I finally, I saw them for who they really are, just fake people in my eyes.
· Why do I think they are Fake?
· For example:
A couple who have an almost three month old baby and had the baby Christened on one Sunday. It was a family affair.
They didn't invite the closest of family to the main event, had asked them to stop by much later in the afternoon for a sweet treat and a drink. They had invited neighbors to the event.
This to me was a very inconsiderate decision. It was rather disappointing for the family not invited.
A big regret for me meeting that kind of people, exactly how life is, with family or friends often there are the misunderstanding moments.
I am grateful for having a friend whom I can speak to about such situations and someone who understands my thoughts.
She advised along the way as I have made my new life in a foreign country.
· What are your biggest regrets?
I have never regretted anything in my life and lately had discovered my biggest regret which is meeting FAKE people. The saddest part, they are part of somebody's family.
The big hugs and kisses can be so not real, and when you realize it is all fake, moments like these can make you see things differently, get those kind of people of your list.
Other regrets one can have is not spending time with family and close friends.
Most individuals regret not standing up for themselves when they were younger. Confronting their issues with bullies which they had to live on with for years on.
Losing good friends from your school years, and the people who you grow up with and move away can also be regrets at times.
The lack of communication loses that friendship you wish could be present again.
Relationships can be among the biggest regrets, when breaking up with your one and only, this can have greater effects on one's mind. The memories linger on.
If you always bother about what others are gossiping about you it can hold you back from doing many good things in life. A regret many people have and don't admit it.
Lack of confidence makes one think less about them, in the process they are not secure in making decisions or speaking up.
You have to follow your dreams. If your parents want you to fulfill their dreams instead of yours is another regret that can make you feel disappointed later in life.
Living constantly in different places, can make many changes in your life. That too can leave you with regret.
Life has many challenges sometimes you can regret not going further in your goals, such as in your daily activities. The individual can feel fear and fail in thinking about targeting their goals.
You wish things could have changed like something about you could have changed to save your marriage. In many cases, marriages can be saved but wrong decisions make it fail faster.
· If only you could turn back time?
Parenting is tough time spent with your child flies by fast, but you wish time could be spared even more.
Forgiving others is it family or friends, or moving on can be difficult. Some kind of regrets doesn’t go away.
· Do you regret not asking your school mate out on a date?
When you were younger friends weren't as impressive. They talked you into mischievous stuff and you off-course went along with it and now wish you hadn't.
You dropped out of college and now without the degree you always thought of and wanted. It can make you feel deep regret not having that paper of education in your hand.
Love the job you have, choosing a job you don't like will forever make you unhappy.
Ignoring your health when you should have taken more notice of what was going on.
In failure to speak up when you had the chance at a function or in not attending an event of your friend from school days.
Learning a new language, if you wanted to, and meeting new people while free and single, not enjoying your single life can make one think all sorts, especially, after marriage.
· Do you wish your parenting skills were improved?
Most people experience such regrets, and the problem is saying goodbye to someone for the last time when it mostly hurts. If someone you love is dying, and all regrets come flooding in your mind. You may not know what to do or say.
If you are really sorry about your past mistakes and don't want anyone close to you to make the same mistakes talk to them about it allow a clear understanding about life.
You can be there for them to solve their issues.
Sharing your thoughts about regrets on paper can be the most relieving process, let out your feelings and feel better from the inside.
You learn from your mistakes and also make new mistakes, and regrets are held onto for many years.
Live life in the present and not in the past.
Do not hold onto regrets, not everything can be changed.
Sometimes you can be harder on yourself than on others.
Just about everyone has skeletons in their closets so you are not the only with a deep regret.
All learning lessons and the many mistakes can open ones mind to further learning. Fake people can be rude, disrespectful and so merciless. They can make one feel less confident and down about them.
Such people don't care of how others feel and often leave them out of their conversations or special events. The types who won't accept you in their lives.
· How can you change your life to avoid such regrets?
Fake people invite certain guests to their functions in order to benefit from them.
· For example:
Some traditions are rich in thought about receiving cash and expensive gifts from their guests when invited to events.
They tend to be friendly with families and friends who are known to have good careers and who have good bank balances.
It is not worthy of your time to be with such people and feel you liked by them when you are not. Deep down they don't care about you.
Such kind of people will often come by and have pampering moments only to get something from you.
Over time, I have come across many people but the FAKE people disgust me the most they are merciless and most selfish.
Regrets in Life
What are your Biggest Regrets?
© 2013 Devika Primić