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What Every Girl Needs To Know About Her Man – 4 Tips On How To Understand The Guy You Love
Women many times, have a hard time understanding the men that they love. There is a lot of truth to the book that came out in the 1990’s entitled Mars and Venus by Dr. Gray. Women and men understand and speak different languages from each other. Women can’t understand what their men are saying and often get their feelings hurt when no negativity has been implied. Then he is confused about whey she is giving him the famous silent treatment and on the brink of crying. It doesn’t have to be that way at all.
There are simple explanations and truths when understood by women can save relationships.
1) HE REALL YHAS NOTHING ON HIS MIND
It is hard to believe but it is true. When you ask him what he is thinking about and he says nothing, he is not lying. YOU get frustrated and angry because you think he isn’t sharing or that he is hiding something from you. The fact is, he has nothing on his mind. Stop for one minute and just accept that at that current moment, he REALLY isn’t thinking about anything.
2) HE IS IN LOVE WITH YOU, JUST THE WAY YOU ARE!
He really is in love with you, just the way you are NOW. The problem is that he doesn’t want you to change. He would be extremely happy if you would stay the way you were when you first started dating. You remember those days, right? You were sweet, happy, in love, sexy and eager to please him.
3) CHANGE IS NOT HIS FRIEND
As mentioned already, he does not want YOU to change. He doesn’t want to change either. That is why it is so hard for him to do things like join the gym and eat healthier meals. He would really be happy to eat fried chicken every Saturday, watch TV sitting in his favorite chair for the next 10 years and drive the same pick-up truck until it is all rust.
4) HE DOES HAVE FEELINGS
Women usually believe that their boyfriends, husbands, men in general have no feelings or emotions. Contrary to common belief men do have feelings, deep feelings. Although men do not display their feelings, they are emotional and deep beings. He doesn’t tell you he loves you every day, he doesn’t buy you flowers every week, but he loves you and he loves his family. His feelings for you and his family are special and he needs you to return his love and reassure him that you accept him as he is.
When you come to accept and understand these facts and truths about the men you love, you will find that your relationship will prosper. You will come to appreciate your man and love him even more bringing you two closer and making your relationship that much strong. FOR MORE TIPS, GO TO: http://bit.ly/JLUgFA