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What Is a Good Christian Woman?

Updated on March 9, 2014

A woman who has good self esteem and confidence in herself, is independent yet adaptable. She is willing to embrace another with affection, honesty and respect. She is a rare beauty on the inside and has qualities such as a good sense of humor, a kindness and good heart, a willingness to compromise and a desire to love and be loved.

She is like a breath of fresh air, friendly and welcoming to all yet able to set boundaries and have healthy relationships.


A woman is like unto a beautiful flower such as a rose which is beautiful on the outside with it's inner radiance showing through, and it's petals complex until you get to the core of its essence and who she really is deep down inside.

The outer layers show many things but you will never get to the inside unless you get to know that woman. Seeing her honesty is very important in order to make her worthwhile to get to know.

Many men will not get to the core of a good woman without the certain qualities she is looking for and then there must be courting and a sense of romance which leads to a fulfilling relationship. Becoming friends first and developing respect appear to be paramount as to jumping in and ruffling the beauty of the flower. A rose's thorns may prick you too! So be careful with that woman!!

A sense of fun and adventure....A lust for Life
A sense of fun and adventure....A lust for Life
Desire for romance
Desire for romance
Moments holding hands
Moments holding hands

I believe a relationship between a man and a woman should be as equals, each respecting the other and submitting to the other, working things out and compromising. It also takes two people who have arrived at a healthy place in their life and are ready to make a commitment and know what they want and how to be. Lastly, a way in which each on their own are capable- independent and self fulfilling as in not codependent or overly needy and one seeking to put into the relationship as much as they can get out of it. Also a need for sexual intimacy must be equaled. The two become one flesh as it was meant to be and as we were created to have a special bond brought about under proper conditions.

Proper conditions would be developing a special friendship that leads to romance and courting and waiting preferably until marriage to share the gift of intimacy which is how God intended it to be which makes the lovemaking all the more special and the issues of pregnancy outside of two parents who are married and prepared to have children, STD's and all the unwanted things premarital sex can entail.

I think God blessed me with two parents who stayed together "Till death do us part." And who also helped take care of one another.
I think God blessed me with two parents who stayed together "Till death do us part." And who also helped take care of one another.

What qualities in a woman are most important?

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Does a woman need to be an extremely fashionable dresser? Do she need to have perfect etiquette? Do she have to be extraordinarily beautiful?

I think a good woman is

  • wise and prudent
  • faithful and honest
  • loyal and loving
  • patient and adaptable
  • tasteful with dress
  • polite with good manners
  • spiritual - beauty on the inside
  • affectionate
  • a helpmate, good lover, friend, sister, motherly

What I enjoy about being a woman

  • Being affectionate and supportive
  • Feminine yet also physically strong
  • Being myself
  • Having fun with hair, makeup and clothes or just being plain and simple
  • The prerogative to change my mind!
  • Protective and instinctively motherly
  • Having soft lips, long nails, long hair
  • Being admired
  • Being a role model for others
  • Honesty, integrity, and love for people
  • Sweetness and innocence
  • Able to seduce
  • Kissy lips to smooch :)
  • Speaking my mind!


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    • schoolgirlforreal profile image

      schoolgirlforreal 3 years ago from USA

      Hi Skye

      It's great to see you, :) And thank you for reminding me of this hub. I think the things we write about help us the most! :D hehe...Blessings to you as well, yes.....!

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      skye2day 3 years ago from Rocky Mountains

      schoolgirl. You have an exquisite hub here. It is very well done.

      The word of God says the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. This is a good reminder of what we can strive to become. With God all things are possible. We cannot but God can. He shapes and molds us. A wise woman is worth more than rubies or gold.

      Thank you for writing this. May Gods favor abound in you and yours today and always dear precious woman. Love, Skye

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      schoolgirlforreal 4 years ago from USA

      Thank you very much Deb, prayers and blessings


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      Deborah Brooks Langford 4 years ago from Brownsville,TX

      Rose this is an awesome hub.. and I agree with you.. honesty and kindness are the most for the good woman.. blessings to you and your writing


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      schoolgirlforreal 4 years ago from USA

      Thank you very much ;-]

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      Jerry W Hulse 4 years ago from Kingsport, Tennessee

      I am having to take my time an absorb this but it is awesome voted up!

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      schoolgirlforreal 4 years ago from USA

      Yes I agree the idea of obedient is very unattractive to me- although Christians still use it to this day- I guess it depends on how "nice" the husband is- traditionally yes the woman would let the man be the HEAD and that is a good thing.

      As for clever house maker, I do think the other items are more important, but I am actually, just not a fancy cook although I can cook. :)

      As for a perfect mother , lol...I think I would be a very good mother...but today not all couples have children :-)

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      Audrey 4 years ago

      I was reading an article the other day about women in the 1950's and 60's. A good woman then is about being an obedient wife, clever housemaker and perfect mother. Of course, times have changed and what is "good" then may not be so good now. I think most women now would have trouble being an obedient wife for a start!