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What Is a Good Christian Woman?
A woman who has good self esteem and confidence in herself, is independent yet adaptable. She is willing to embrace another with affection, honesty and respect. She is a rare beauty on the inside and has qualities such as a good sense of humor, a kindness and good heart, a willingness to compromise and a desire to love and be loved.
She is like a breath of fresh air, friendly and welcoming to all yet able to set boundaries and have healthy relationships.
A woman is like unto a beautiful flower such as a rose which is beautiful on the outside with it's inner radiance showing through, and it's petals complex until you get to the core of its essence and who she really is deep down inside.
The outer layers show many things but you will never get to the inside unless you get to know that woman. Seeing her honesty is very important in order to make her worthwhile to get to know.
Many men will not get to the core of a good woman without the certain qualities she is looking for and then there must be courting and a sense of romance which leads to a fulfilling relationship. Becoming friends first and developing respect appear to be paramount as to jumping in and ruffling the beauty of the flower. A rose's thorns may prick you too! So be careful with that woman!!
I believe a relationship between a man and a woman should be as equals, each respecting the other and submitting to the other, working things out and compromising. It also takes two people who have arrived at a healthy place in their life and are ready to make a commitment and know what they want and how to be. Lastly, a way in which each on their own are capable- independent and self fulfilling as in not codependent or overly needy and one seeking to put into the relationship as much as they can get out of it. Also a need for sexual intimacy must be equaled. The two become one flesh as it was meant to be and as we were created to have a special bond brought about under proper conditions.
Proper conditions would be developing a special friendship that leads to romance and courting and waiting preferably until marriage to share the gift of intimacy which is how God intended it to be which makes the lovemaking all the more special and the issues of pregnancy outside of two parents who are married and prepared to have children, STD's and all the unwanted things premarital sex can entail.
What qualities in a woman are most important?
Does a woman need to be an extremely fashionable dresser? Do she need to have perfect etiquette? Do she have to be extraordinarily beautiful?
I think a good woman is
- wise and prudent
- faithful and honest
- loyal and loving
- patient and adaptable
- tasteful with dress
- polite with good manners
- spiritual - beauty on the inside
- a helpmate, good lover, friend, sister, motherly
What I enjoy about being a woman
- Being affectionate and supportive
- Feminine yet also physically strong
- Being myself
- Having fun with hair, makeup and clothes or just being plain and simple
- The prerogative to change my mind!
- Protective and instinctively motherly
- Having soft lips, long nails, long hair
- Being admired
- Being a role model for others
- Honesty, integrity, and love for people
- Sweetness and innocence
- Able to seduce
- Kissy lips to smooch :)
- Speaking my mind!