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What Makes A Man Notice You

Updated on January 11, 2012

It may surprise you at how most women can easily get or attract a man. These women seem to know just what to do and grasp the male folks. "what's is the secret?" you might ask. The secret is just one word. "confidence"; that's all it takes to make any man notice and become attracted to you. I understand that quite a lot of women don't have enough self confidence to behave a certain way in certain situations. To find out more about self confidence, read my article on "How To Build Your Self-confidence. However, it is important you learn few basic but effective steps that will definitely help you look confident and bold enough to attract a guy you admire. These steps will help you create a great impression and get that man to notice you.

1. Initiating A Conversation With Him-

This is a very simple step. Saying a simple 'hello' make a lot of difference when you are trying to get noticed. You don't really have to organize and line-up a fully prepared long speech. This approach is very friendly and you'll more than likely get a friendly response. If the guy seems to be shy to respond immediately, you could apply the next move using any of the following:

• compliment him by smiling gently at him. Guys reacts well to a pure gently smile.

•ask him a question-you can initiate his attention by simply asking questions like "how are you doing today?".

•discussing a subject that is similar to both of you- you can apply this approach and discuss
something that you have in common with him. It's really a great way to spark up a conversation with him. When you finally gets him to talk to you, try as much as you can to be attentive. Interrupting him won't be the right thing to do. 2. Being Yourself- It is really nice to be who you are whilst getting a guy to notice you. Be down to earth if you want him to see you for who you are. Trying so hard to impress him or fake who you are can be a huge turn-off. Even if you are a little shy, don't worry because it will really make you appear adorable and lovable to him.

3. Smiling At Him-

A good and genuine smile is infections. Don't fake your smile. An infectious smile. Creates an instant trust and friendly relationship, and will creates a very positive vibe. Humans are always drawn to others with positive vibe, and a good smile on your face is a sure signal for the opposite sex to approach instead of retreat.

4. Showing Interest In What He Likes-

It is very important to know what your guy likes and doesn't. Showing interest in his hobbies is another way to spark up his mind towards you. Asking questions is a good way to show him how genuinely interested you are. It can be flattering for a man when a woman to show interest in the things he does and this will definitely make him appreciate your efforts.

5. Appealing To His Sense Of Smell-

Body smell is a powerful sense and once a man inhales a scent on you that he finds pleasing, he'll associate that smell with your personality and never forget it. Wear nice signature perfume lightly to draw him in and bring him close. Don't make it too overpowering to repel because he needs a breath of fresh air. A sexy body scent is an invisible weapon of attraction.

6. Dressing Well-

Men appreciate women who are well dressed, and irrespective of what you might think, men don't always need to see flesh to be attracted to the opposite sex. The truth is, guys often find it very appealing when you leave a little more to the imagination.

7. Being Friends At First-

It is always good to start up every relationship by being friends at first. This will allow both of you to get to know each other without complications and so much expectations. Coming on too strong at first can scare most men to run for the hills. Naturally, men don't like to be chased because it makes them feel less in control. Allow them to be the ones coming strongly after you. Make them do some work before winning you over . I do not mean you should play too hard to get lest a guy might think he got no chance. Just give some gently signals if he needs little encouragement. Let the relationship take its natural course. Just go with the flow.

In conclusion, always bear in mind that a lot of descent men are around. If the man you've admired prefare not to reciprocate, this is normal. Do not take it personality, just move on and do not feel like your happiness depends entirely on someone else. If men notice that you're not happy because you're still single, they'll run the other way. Therefore, be confident and be happy. You'll be amazed at how guys will crave to be with you.


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    • Lydia Sweatt profile image

      Lydia Sweatt 4 years ago from Dallas, TX

      All of these tips are very true, especially the confidence, dressing nice, and smiling...all good openers to a conversation. Good hub!

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      Thelma Alberts 5 years ago from Germany

      Welcome to HubPages. This is great and useful for women who are insecure in getting to know men. Voted up. Have a lovely day!

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      L M Reid 6 years ago from Ireland

      Welcome. I agree with you about confidence. When a woman has confidence she shines and stands out enough to attract people to her.

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      DIYweddingplanner 6 years ago from South Carolina, USA

      I second that! Welcome and good luck with your writing!

      Some very good advice!

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      Luis E Gonzalez 6 years ago from Miami, Florida

      Welcome to HubPages

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      Smile Onwughara 6 years ago from Abuja, Nigeria

      Thank You so much Sir!

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      alocsin 6 years ago from Orange County, CA

      Some good ideas for women to take responsibility for her dating life. Voting this Up and Useful.