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What Makes A Woman Truly Sexy?Bet You'd Never Guess...

Updated on September 5, 2015

Common Sense

It may seem overtly obvious, but the response as to how a woman processes information plays a big part on how sexy she is considered. This holds especially true if a proposed solution, opinion, or analysis is counterintuitive. Men feel the idea of knowing a woman can think critically or even surpass his ability to rationalize is extremely stimulating.


Healthy Social Skills

One of the most important things expressed by men, is the ability to interact with others in an appropriate manner. Men expect to have a recognized connection between himself and that sexy someone. In other words, they way she treats people in general should match his way of treating people. Whether the man is a socialite, recluse, party animal, or couch potato, it is sexy for a woman to fit into his world to a certain extent. It makes sense for someone who he finds attractive to be able to interact cordially with the people that are already apart of his social circle. Whether it is a Super Bowl Party or Black Tie Affair, men think it is sexy to have a woman who knows her way around a crowd.

Team Work Is Sexy: Whether Its Winning or Working Together

Sarah Spain's article on Couples Fantasy Football:Last week we at espnW held our first Fantasy Football Forum for Women in New York City. The crowd included fantasy newbies and veterans alike who shared compelling stories of fantasy glory and angst.
Sarah Spain's article on Couples Fantasy Football:Last week we at espnW held our first Fantasy Football Forum for Women in New York City. The crowd included fantasy newbies and veterans alike who shared compelling stories of fantasy glory and angst.

Team Work Makes A Dream Work

Can you imagine that simply being able to have a partner is a major turn-on? Men could not emphasize enough that during the stressful and competitive practice of striving for success, a woman that can empathize or help is captivatingly sexy! The good life is not as enjoyable without someone special to share the good life. Between the basketball court and the boardroom, a woman that keeps score with him is smoking hot.

A Woman That Embraces Her Authentic Self Drives Men Wild

"Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." --Marilyn Monroe
"Imperfection is beauty, madness is genius and it's better to be absolutely ridiculous than absolutely boring." --Marilyn Monroe

Unique Tastes and Attributes

Nothing is sexier than a woman who has very pronounced physical attributes and celebrates how it distinguishes her from the crowd. The general notion is that unique hair textures, birthmarks, freckles, or any other natural phenomenon has to be covered up, altered, or changed. However, there is no an invisible template for beauty that woman rigorously abide by in order to maintain a certain level of attractiveness. While men apparently appreciate makeup and manicures, the grooming rituals woman religiously practice are not always necessary in order to provide stimulus package of sexy. As it turns out a woman who is naturally and uniquely herself is seen as a vixen sexier than the run of the mill painted lady.

Be Your Very Best You!

"Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken" --Oscar Wilde
"Be yourself; Everyone else is already taken" --Oscar Wilde

The Sensation of Adult Conversation

Sexy is the woman who knows who she is and what she wants. Men find that being able to confide in a woman is a nice secret to keep behind closed doors alongside the naughty. It seems that being able to talk on in depth about life's substantial aspects is not only supportive but super sexy.

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Happiness Is Hot

Show me a woman confident in her skin and happy with her life, and I will show you the lines of men that apparently find her red hot. Smiling is one of the single most sexy thing that is simple and most impressionable.

Kind Eyes

Being kindhearted and sincere is considered a rarity that is not only honorable but sexy. There is no comparison when it comes down to deep attraction; A sincere and thoughtful countenance does more for the male labido than the self centered snob with a bad attitude.

When you're a girl, you have to be everything, You have to be dope at what you do, but you have to be super sweet, and you have to be sexy, and you have to be this and you have to be that and you have to be nice, and you have to - it's like, I can't
When you're a girl, you have to be everything, You have to be dope at what you do, but you have to be super sweet, and you have to be sexy, and you have to be this and you have to be that and you have to be nice, and you have to - it's like, I can't

An Adventurous Spirit

Men are happy in a routine in everyday life. Consistency is one of the key attributes of a great rapport. It builds trust and proves that someone is reliable. However, the truth is no one could express enough how sexy it is to know a woman will never be a bore. Whether it is as simple as occasionally trying an exotic coffee or as complex as escaping on a long distance getaway, a sense of adventure is sexy.

The Sexy Summation

Sexy is in the eye of the beholder. The honest and heartfelt response of real men aknowledges an unspoken truth about measuring a geniune connection. It is very refreshing that although real men pay attention to the hot half-naked bodies in magazines, on television, and in movies; attention is also paid to the more realistic aspects a woman embodies to deem her ultimately sexy.

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    • Akriti Mattu profile image

      Akriti Mattu 2 years ago from Shimla, India

      I totally agree.

      Very well written :)

    • dashingscorpio profile image

      dashingscorpio 2 years ago

      Sexy like beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

      From the male point of view being physically attracted to a woman is the initial catalyst to pursue asking her out.

      Generally speaking men don't ask women out whom they find physically unattractive for romantic outings. Everything they learn about the women afterwards is "icing on the cake".

      I completely agree with your advice to "be your very best (you)."

      The goal is to find someone who will love and appreciate you for who (you) are! This also works the other way around. Don't take on men as "projects". You want to find a man who (already is) the kind of man you want.

      Very few men are walking around with a hand held up in the air screaming; "I'm looking for a woman to change me!"

      Once again "sexy" is in the eye of the beholder!

      Thankfully we live on a planet with over 7 Billion people! Odds are in everyone's favor that there are more than a few suitable mates for us all.