What Attracts women to Men.
When it comes to attraction, we all have something to say, men and women. Ladies, if we want men to behave in a certain way then we have to let them know what we think. We can’t leave it up to them to figure it out.
Well then,let me tell you what attracts women.
Someone in good shape
A hard, taut, body is our wish but reality is sometimes so very different.Truly, that‘s what we’d like. If he doesn’t have a six pack darn, we’ll settle for good care of his body. Part of taking care of his body includes keeping all body areas with hair well trimmed. After all, it could make for interesting conversation. Included in that self care should be nose, underarms, fingernails and toenails grooming.
Someone responsive to our needs
As Women,we don’t require a mind reader or magician but if you have those talents, then work them. If you can see that she doesn't like what’s happening between the two of you then adjust it or change it. Talk to her. Ask her opinion. Find out. We like that. We like to be talked to not talked at.
Fun to be with
We like to be around someone fun. That means someone who wants to try different things instead of the same ole, same ole. Shake it up a bit! Let your imagination go. Let yourself go.
Let's face it, we are romantic beings. We love to be romanced as much as possible. Sometimes, surprise her with a bottle of wine, strawberries, chocolate, a backrub, sexy underwear, jewellery, soft music or take her on a special date. Spice it up!
A good lover
- But that comes after we get to know him. A good lover is a good communicator. Although, we still want him to be tall, strong, hard bodied, sexy, sensuous, sensitive,caring and patient with us. Something in us yearns a little for that tough, rugged, devil may care behaviour too. He has the right attitude and knows where and how to touch us, to touch all the places in us that have lain dormant. That's what we would like.
A good heart
Yes, it's true. A good heart will steal ours any time. A man with a loving heart just feels right. Like that big teddy bear that's willing to love us no matter what our faults. He know them but loves us anyway.
Sure some of the other things on the list are physical but it doesn't make it less true. We are attracted with our eyes first and then we want to see where it leads. We want to dig deeper. Maybe get to know what's behind the face. Get to know the person. Find out their personality and if they would complement ours.
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