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What Women Want In The Bedroom
When it comes to the bedroom, we all have something to say, men and women. Ladies, if we want men to behave in a certain way inside and outside of the bedroom, then we have to let them know. We can’t leave it up to them to figure it out.
People frequently say to me “Chris, you’re a straight up, tell it like it is kind of gal and I like that”. Well then, step into my boudoir and let me tell you what women want. Just read and listen, please. Men we want the ambiance too. That means good music. Play some music and turn me on then.
- Number one on our list is a good lover. A good lover should encompass all of the other areas that I will mention below. We still want him to be tall, strong, hard bodied, sexy, sensuous, sensitive and patient. Something in us yearns a little for that tough, rugged, devil may care attitude too. He has the right size package and knows where and how to touch us, to touch all the places in us that have lain dormant. Wake up!! That’s only in your dreams Chris. Maybe!
- Hard, taut body
Truly, that‘s what we’d like. If he doesn’t have a six pack we’ll settle for good care of his body. Part of taking care of his body includes clipping around the package area to enhance it. You know, like a freshly mowed lawn and how good it looks. You want to stretch out on it right away. Make it look enticing. After all, it could make for interesting conversation. Included in that should be underarms and fingernails and toenails.
- Responsive to their needs
Women don’t need a mind reader or magician but if you have the talents then work them. If you can see that she does not like the position or what’s happening between the two of you then adjust it. Ask her opinion. Find out. This is a team sport.
- Fun to be with
The same boring position, in the same place equals snoozeville. Shake it up a bit! Try different positions, not all at the same session mind you. Try it on the floor, table or outside. Try some toys. Let your imagination go. Let yourself go.
We don’t expect to be seduced or romanced every time. Sometimes though it would be nice to surprise her with a bottle of wine, strawberries, handcuffs, blindfold, chocolate, sexy underwear, soft music or whatever works for you. Spice it up!
- Foreplay, Foreplay, Foreplay
Let’s not dress this up. During team sports you must warm up and stretch the muscles before the game begins. The game does not begin until then. If you need some help with that see my hub on how to kiss a woman. Get her properly warmed up and she'll be all over you.
Keep eye contact. Talk to her and let her know how you’re feeling. You don’t have to keep up a running commentary but neither do you have to be silent. You’re supposed to be having fun.
If you show me yours and let me touch it, I’ll let you play with mine. Seriously though, we like giving and receiving and so should you.
When the fun is over instead of falling asleep on her, snuggle until you do.
There's more to this list but I have some good ones here. I hope you enjoyed them all. Remember, play nice and you'll be a winner every time.
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