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What Attracts women to Men.

Updated on February 3, 2019

The key

When it comes to attraction, we all have something to say, men and women. Ladies, if we want men to behave in a certain way then we have to let them know what we think. We can’t leave it up to them to figure it out.

Well then,let me tell you what attracts women.


Someone in good shape

A hard, taut, body is our wish but reality is sometimes so very different.Truly, that‘s what we’d like. If he doesn’t have a six pack darn, we’ll settle for good care of his body. Part of taking care of his body includes keeping all body areas with hair well trimmed. After all, it could make for interesting conversation. Included in that self care should be nose, underarms, fingernails and toenails grooming.

Someone responsive to our needs

As Women,we don’t require a mind reader or magician but if you have those talents, then work them. If you can see that she doesn't like what’s happening between the two of you then adjust it or change it. Talk to her. Ask her opinion. Find out. We like that. We like to be talked to not talked at.

Fun to be with

We like to be around someone fun. That means someone who wants to try different things instead of the same ole, same ole. Shake it up a bit! Let your imagination go. Let yourself go.

  • Romance

Let's face it, we are romantic beings. We love to be romanced as much as possible. Sometimes, surprise her with a bottle of wine, strawberries, chocolate, a backrub, sexy underwear, jewellery, soft music or take her on a special date. Spice it up!

A good lover

  • But that comes after we get to know him. A good lover is a good communicator. Although, we still want him to be tall, strong, hard bodied, sexy, sensuous, sensitive,caring and patient with us. Something in us yearns a little for that tough, rugged, devil may care behaviour too. He has the right attitude and knows where and how to touch us, to touch all the places in us that have lain dormant. That's what we would like.

A good heart

Yes, it's true. A good heart will steal ours any time. A man with a loving heart just feels right. Like that big teddy bear that's willing to love us no matter what our faults. He know them but loves us anyway.

Sure some of the other things on the list are physical but it doesn't make it less true. We are attracted with our eyes first and then we want to see where it leads. We want to dig deeper. Maybe get to know what's behind the face. Get to know the person. Find out their personality and if they would complement ours.

Tell us what you like

What attract you to someone?

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© 2010 Chris Eddy111


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      Oladeji remmy. 

      9 years ago

      Thanks 4 d write up,bcos,it realy help a lot of pple out me.

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      9 years ago from Ontario, Canada


      @SleeplessnLaJolla Thanks.

    • SleeplessnLaJolla profile image


      9 years ago from La Jolla, Ca

      Awesome! Well put!

    • wdlangchicago profile image


      10 years ago from Just outside of Kansas City, Kansas

      Excellent article.

      While I may not have a Vin Diesel kind of body, I do take care of it. Including the grooming.

      And the comment about listening and communicating with your lover: Very important at every stage of a relationship.

      Thanks again.

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      10 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      alphonsians93~ Hey Thanks.

      Rookie70~ Good to know and thanks. Guess I'll have to drop by to see what you came up with.

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      10 years ago

      Nice hub, and very inspiring. You gave me some ideas for my own topic. Thanks.

    • alphonsians93 profile image


      11 years ago from Cebu Philippines

      This is amazing and truly a great info...for new ones!!! Keep it up man!!!

      keep it up man!

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      11 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      @Keith Risden, thanks for your encouragement and I'm glad you left your comments.

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      Uncle Barry 

      11 years ago from Jamaica

      Hi Chris, just want to say I enjoy your writings even the ones I don't comment on. Classically pictures, we need more to work with to enhance the presentation of our hubs. Keep writing

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      11 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      @callmefoxxy, I hear you girl. Guys I hope you do too.

    • callmefoxxy profile image


      11 years ago

      Excellent hub Chris! I'm BIG on #1, Seduction and Reciprocity!!! Yeah, Yeah, Yeah!

      Um can I add... women want a great spot to make love in... aka a great, luxurious and inviting bed (like that pic up top)! NOT some rundown, cheap-ass hotel room bed, not your mama's broken-down, plaid couch, nor your roomie's cluttered with clothes, dorm room floor, lol. I'll take that shopping expedition now please, lmao...

      callmefoxxy, my pen is a mighty sword!

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      11 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      @epigramman, Colin, I'll take the shopping spree after the good loving though lol. That's some good choices in music too. One Love.

    • epigramman profile image


      11 years ago

      I thought what women wanted during sex was a shopping expedition - lol lol lol.

      It's Colin here aka epigramman: 'irae' 'rice and peas'

      Toots and the Maytals - Desmond Dekker - King Tubby

      Steel Pulse - Blue Mountain coffee - ganga - Peter Tosh -

      Black Urhuru - Easy Dub All Stars - "ONE LOVE"

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      11 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      @poetlorraine, Thanks.

      @entertianmentplus, all good. Thanks.

      @Micky Dee, you know I love you boy!!

    • entertianmentplus profile image


      11 years ago from United States

      Very well done glad you shared this with us.

    • profile image


      11 years ago

      nice hub.... Micky come alive

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      Micky Dee 

      11 years ago

      Yo Chris Eddy! Could I take a class?

      I'm all talk love! I do love you though. I do sometimes wish I were still alive!

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      11 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      @Larry, maven 101, I think I have that book somewhere or have read it. Took a look at Cosmo's. Yep, gets you going for sure. Thanks for stopping by.

      @Deborah Demander, count on me for sure, lol. Thanks for your comment.

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      Deborah Reno 

      11 years ago from First Wyoming, then THE WORLD

      Thanks for telling it like it is. I appreciate your candor. And, I appreciate the great pictures.


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      Larry Conners 

      11 years ago from Northern Arizona

      Excellent advise and suggestions to maintain and enjoy a healthy sex life...If you run out of ideas get the Cosmo's Kama Sutra with illustrations...some very interesting positions in there...Although, being in our 70's, we may be a bit over-challenged getting into them...and then getting out of them...Thanks for this, Chris...Larry

    • Chris Eddy111 profile imageAUTHOR

      Chris Eddy111 

      11 years ago from Ontario, Canada

      @thevoice, I'm glad that you enjoyed it. Thanks for dropping by. I hope they are learning as they age.

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      11 years ago from carthage ill

      terrific terrific hub write very true thanks guys learn when they get older its not one two three thank you mamm


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