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What makes a Woman with Attitude so attractive to some men?

Updated on March 23, 2012

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I am using the term attitude because I am not a fan of the commonly used word to describe these women=bitches. So why are these women super hot to guys? Why do men seem to just put up with their crap? you're you're reading this and asking yourself these questions i have the answers for you. First i must ask do you consider yourself to be the good fun loving chick every male wants? Or that you are the woman who was brought up to believe in that having good wholesome values is a trait that deserves to be respected? If so, then let this blog guide to the other side of what men want from women because while as all that is true you have to bring more to the table for men to truly stay at the table and not secretly be looking over at the other tables. Its called the "FUN" factor but for now i will answer your first questions. The answer is so simple it really is going to shock you. These women its NOT because they are prettier than you, its they TAKE what they want. Men respond to any forms of aggression. These women have proven there aggression in matters that relate to themselves. I am now going to break down the KEY factors as to why these women with attitude seem to get all the guys attention.

When you look in the mirror tell yourself I'M SEXY AND I KNOW IT!
When you look in the mirror tell yourself I'M SEXY AND I KNOW IT!

Key #1 Confidence

You heard the song "I'm Sexy and I Know It" well every woman should be saying that phase to herself everyday and night. Confidence is Sexy. The problem is a lot of us let our insecurities stop us. These women rather they truly feel it or not sparkle to men because they aren't afraid to say i'm sexy and i know it. In fact they go the extra step to show off a bit more because they know they are the prize so why not give him something to chase? THIS IS WIN WIN for men. We all realize by now men are visual creatures. A woman who is confident means to them she is a risk taker. Their for not boring. Their for good sex. Their for worth the headache. Simple. So stop playing second base and score a home run by showing a little more. Don't shy away smile at him. Be a little provocative. You don't have to be a slut to be provocative. (as your mother may have warned you or other women in your life) You can be provocative, confident, and keep your morals all at once if you don't let it go to far to your head. In less words just have fun. Let loose your teasing side, you don't have to go around like a hungry cat looking for your next meal (meaning you don't have to sleep with every guy you tease right away) but you should give your number or email. (if your not in relationship)

Key #2 Game on

Like I said before these women keep in mind they are the prize. So they know if the guy pursues them they have to keep his interest. So they let him know he isn't her whole world. To men they instantly feel challenged. Men love to chase women its fun, but if you just submit yourself over to him either to soon or to long he will enjoy you but will get bored. (this is why a lot of men cheat on good girls) These women all there doing is letting him know you may have my interest but you haven't won yet. So stop submitting all the damn time good girls! YELL BACK! Leave and flirt with other men. Whatever you need to do but there is a time for submission ( you know sometimes in the bedroom) and a time to be aggressive. (let him know game on let the best sex win) Now don't overdo it i must add because it can be over done. If you act too demanding he will walk away or if you make it impossible. So remember your going to let him win but he has to make effort. ;)

GET LOUD, CRAZY, GET WHAT YOU WANT.
GET LOUD, CRAZY, GET WHAT YOU WANT.

Key #3 SEX

(this is the last key i will point out) Yes all you good nature women maybe blushing right now but lets be real. Men want good sex. They want passion in the bedroom not routine. That's the one up these aggressive women have on you right now. They know what men really want in the bedroom. A FREAKY WOMAN. You have to take risks ladies so your man don't feel like he is doing the same dance every night. COME ON even you have to be bored to some degree. You think just having sex regularly is enough? NO. You have to push him sexually. Be vocal about you want. WHO THE HELL CARES if you sound like a crazy person because you lost control? You think he is going to say SHUT UP? (unless your playing another kind of fantasy like being gagged but for the most part guys like noise from you) No!! He will be happy you are enjoying yourself. So if you can't beat these ladies at there game, I say join them. So do these few key tricks and your man will find you so hot he won't have to go searching for a woman has a "FUN" factor because you have all that plus more which is a perfect balance in the end . It will give you the "good girl" the power over these women because as they may have that "FUN" factor (which you will as well) and that's all well men do want the other side just as much. :) thanks for reading leave a comment at the bottom if you wish.

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      alraiah 5 years ago

      oh free nice

      thanks

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      Mistressoflove 5 years ago from Rhode Island

      Thank you alraiah for commenting on the hub. :)

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      34th Bomb Group 5 years ago from Western New York State

      As a powerful woman in my little corner of the world, I won't say you're dead wrong - but I look at it a bit differently.

      I think it was Henry Kissinger who said "Power is the Ultimate Aphrodisiac." (Does everyone know who he is?) He's right, but don't let the power go to your head (very easy to do) and get out of that uniform as often as possible, although the uniform in itself is an aphrodisiac!

      You've obviously gone at this with a man's point of view and as soon as our daughters realize it's not all in the make-up and skinny jeans, and our sons are gentlemen, will things get better.

      We must raise our kids to value themselves.

      My son always holds doors, etc. and he's the most "down" kid around (he's 21). You won't lose your identity by simply being polite and respectful of those who deserve respect.

      Voted up!

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      Mistressoflove 5 years ago from Rhode Island

      Thank you for reading and commenting on the hub 34th. I don't have a daughter but if I did I would teach her how to be a respectable lady FIRST. Before i teach her about makeup and etc. I come from a strict two parent home, my mother taught me to engage a man with his mind by proving you are a lady. Yes i do respect it and its nice but a lot i also got cheated on a lot. I was sad but then i realized why. I was too much of a lady and not enough of a confident and freaky woman when i needed to be. So i'm not saying to be disrespectful I'm saying to tell men exactly what we want and how we want it. I'm saying take risks and be confident. That is the overall message here because men will also respect and value that as well. Plus it makes you the woman the whole package, a lady and freak. :) thank you for voting it up.

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      34th Bomb Group 5 years ago from Western New York State

      There's nothing wrong with confidence. Try to teach her how to give a guy "the look," & make it clear that he's not going to get away with squat!

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      Timea Walker 2 years ago

      I tried to get into this article but it's too hard to take it seriously with all the grammatical errors.

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      Marie 2 years ago

      Please, please, please proofread your article. Their, they're and there having 3 different meanings.

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