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When Friend for life turns into Foe

Updated on March 7, 2015

Compromising with difficult friendship

Compromising with difficult friendship

A Friend for Life may cost you a lifetime when that becomes your foe.Friendship is a big part of a personal identity, not only they carry an impression of who you are but also what they are to you. Both the cases are problematic when it comes to affecting your life and to understand each fake friendship becomes inevitable. Maximum distance within your boundary of friendship can help to mend worse situations.

Friend who wants to live your life. Here a friend is always around you, know what your plans are, how well organized, your ways of achieving results and getting opportunities. They make you believe that they are weaker than you and so you make a choice to help. However, in reality they do not miss any chances to snatch any prospects even if they need to drag you down. They manipulate you and push you unknowingly to certain extremities where u find yourself alone and full of guilt. They wish to read your mind and plan their next move before you achieve it. They make bizarre comments on Facebook status regarding “ Friend for Life”. Honestly, nobody cares until it's time that tells you how have they been wearing a mask for this whole time.

Friend who you can trust. Actually they can make you regret a big time. They make comment against you the moment you leave the chair to make a coffee for them. They are definitely nice and maintain a lot social relationship namely “A gossip queen”. This type of friend is less harmful but they actively participate to defame anyone they have issues with.

Friend who wishes to see you happy but not any more than they are. They offer you help unwillingly. They might plot against you when they feel necessary. This kind of friend is risky in a manner that they know all about you and your personal profile and who knows when they might flip the opposite side of the coin? Say when in your darkest time they might gain sympathy but in reality they find it very comforting while discussing your failure with every top list enemies you got. As it says- “when time goes wrong, everything goes with the flow. ”

Friend who puts you down and makes you believe you are all wrong.Now this kind of friend seriously gives allergies. A person constantly reminds you of your failure and feels that you are worthless for doing anything; they cultivate a seed in you so that you lose every tiny bits of confidence left in you. Unpredictably one day you will think that you are wrong and incapable of doing anything.You will show your weaknesses, and they will show their true color. They will constantly hurt you with your flaws when in fight and make you believe that every wrong they ever heard about you is right.

Well as Bob Marley said-

“Before you point figures at me, make sure your hands are clean. ”

Friend who betray.This friend lives like a shadow following every step to your destination but once you stumble over a stone they do not give you hand to make you stand up. They do not turn back. Because for them to reach the destination is more important than to assistant their friend who’s unparalleled support and association pulled them this close to where they stand today. Say you and your friend are just few steps behind hanging to reach the mountaintop. Now you see the safety rope is ripping off because of both of your weight. Just at that moment he decides to cut your rope since for your friend it’s important to reach the top of the mountain and make history than to have mercy on your life. Stabbed at your back can grow you a little more of bad experiences. You will be hurt more than any other friendship because you both shared the same dreams and hoped to be a friend for life forever.

However, difficult a friendship becomes, it is advisable to take everything with ease and not to act on the immediate situation. Putting a crack in your friendship bonds with harsh words and behaviour is not wise and do not cut out from friendship cause thats not going to end well. May be you can avoid closeness . But there is a reason they are in your life. Everything is a lesson that you needed. But do not make yourself miserable because they are only bonuses to your awesome life. Remember nobody is perfect. You just need to fit yourself in the imperfectness perfectly.

Compromising with difficult friendship

compromising with difficult friendship

A Friend for Life may cost you a lifetime when that becomes your foe.Friendship is a big part of a personal identity, not only they carry an impression of who you are but also what they are to you. Both the cases are problematic when it comes to affecting your life and to understand each fake friendship becomes inevitable. Maximum distance within your boundary of friendship can help to mend worse situations.

Compromising with difficult friendship

A Friend for Life may cost you a lifetime when that becomes your foe.Friendship is a big part of a personal identity, not only they carry an impression of who you are but also what they are to you. Both the cases are problematic when it comes to affecting your life and to understand each fake friendship becomes inevitable. Maximum distance within your boundary of friendship can help to mend worse situations.

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      Tanim Chowdhury 

      3 years ago

      Excellent article! It couldn't be better.

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      Amin Hossain 

      3 years ago from Dhaka, Bangladesh

      This article would be pretty much helpful for selecting friends. Thanks for the fantastic article. Keep it up.

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