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"When Love Fails Us"
"When Love fails Us"
"When Love Fails Us"
Sometimes, when we get hurt in a bad relationship; we become angry and bitter , because we aren't getting what we need and want from the relationship. We let the anger stop us from having a chance to heal and be whole again. When we want true love and we know we deserve it; we must take a stand to fight for what we belive in. what makes me upset is, some of us let the actions of others destroy any possibilities of us ever being happy with someone else, because we're ready to throw in the towel, because things didn't work out with the one you one love. This incident makes on want to give on on finding true love and living a happy life with someone. We shouldn't let one person destroy any hopes of us ever being happy with someone else, that's giving someone control over that they shouldn't have.
Sometimes, when we love to hard ; we take the attitude that if we can't have this person, we don't want anyone else but sometimes who we want isn't a healthy choice for us,but when the heart is involved: it hard to see sbefore your eyes. If you believe in what you and that person has is good and right; then stand on your decision to stay in the relationship and see where it goes, but if you know in your heart that it's not going to work, why waste your precious time on what could have or would have happen if you both stayed together. If you love someone; free them and if it's meant to be, they return to you but if they don't return, you know it wasn't meant to be.
We cannot let the love we have for some unworthy person, destroy our chance of happiness with someone worthy of loving us. If you are misguided in relationships and really don't know how to choose the best mate for yourself; then pray to God for discernment to steer clear of less desirable people and go out and get you a good book on love and relationships, believe it or not, sometimes a good book can give us great pointers on the do's and don't's of a new relationship and point us in the right direction of true love. So, instead of worrying about what's wrong in our lives, we need to think about the things that are right in our lives and start counting our blessings and the rest will take care of itself.
Benny Faye Douglass (C) Copyright 2011