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When Women Should End A Relationship

Updated on October 23, 2010

When Women Should End A Relationship

You've spent more nights waiting up for your boyfriend to call or come home than you've spent romantically with him, the mascara stains on your face from the tears proves it. Happiness was a thing of the past and you've become depressed most of the time and have put on a lot of weight.The fussing and fighting is always sparked by you asking him where he's been and he always becomes defensive with you.

Obviously he is seeing someone else; seriously, he can't be at a company meeting at 2am in the morning, he's playing you for a fool and at this point you should call him out and not let him get away with this any longer. Life is short and you should be spending it in a happier relationship with a faithful guy; End this relationship especially when there is proof that he is cheating on you. If you find yourself always on the back burner or being last on your boyfriends list when it comes to others, there isn't a reason for you to continue a relationship like this if your boyfriend doesn't see you as an important and worthy person in his life.

The last you checked you did not have everlast written on your forehead. However, your boyfriend comes up to you like Mike Tyson has possessed him, he easily get's jealous of you and the violence starts. After he's abused you he's always apologetic, with flowers and all like it will heal the bruises, burns and cuts. "Why must you continue to stay and endure this from your boyfriend?" It is time to look after yourself for a change and seek some safety and normalcy in your life. This is another relationship a woman should end very quickly.

If you are in a relationship with a man who is controlling; someone telling you what to wear, how to think or you have to ask permission to do anything before you do it, is not a relationship at all. When you were a child, you listen to your parents and had to be obedient, getting permission for everything you wanted to do; it was for your own good because your parents were trying to mold you into a responsible woman, but your boyfriends controlling ways are only because he wants power over you, he want's to dictate your every move. Love is not the driving force behind his controlling behavior, so it is best that he change his controlling ways or he should lose you forever.

If your boyfriend is everything that a woman should ask for in a man, but you don't see it anymore. You're just unhappy with everything about him, that once you adored when you first met him is now gone. Being unhappy in a relationship will not only make you unhappy but it can affect your boyfriends happiness as well. Don't stay with your boyfriend because you're afraid of being alone or think you will never find someone else again.

Sometimes unhappiness can be from within and have nothing to do with your boyfriend, you can be depressed and take it out on your relationship, pushing a good partner away. Getting help from a therapist can help you get your thoughts and feelings in order and it can in return salvage your relationship with a good boyfriend.

When you have different goals and you're going in different directions and you refuse to see eye to eye on your future. Perhaps, you want to be a stay at home mom and have four children and he doesn't want children at all or he wants a working wife, you both will eventually come to that fork in the road. Anyone who is solely for themselves shouldn't have to conform to anyone especially if it takes away from their individual happiness. Nevertheless, couples have to sacrifice in order for a relationship to work.

A woman who has feelings for another man or plans on cheating with someone else, ought to end her relationship with her boyfriend. Being honest about infidelity or falling in love with someone is the better idea than stringing someone along pretending that you are faithful to them. There are many reasons a woman should end a relationship. Therefore, the obvious ones always stares you in the face where living in denial should not be an option.






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      Leslie Trotter 7 years ago from New Orleans, La

      You're welcome, Dotty1

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      dotty1 7 years ago from In my world

      enjoyed your hub thank you x

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      Leslie Trotter 7 years ago from New Orleans, La

      SuziGravenstuk, Yes, many women are stuck in relationships and they are confused whether they should stay or leave. I wish you many more years with your guy. Thank you for the nice comment.

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      SuziGravenstuk 7 years ago from Long Beach MS, USA

      None of the category words actually described it--This article was more a blend of useful, funny, awesome, and beautiful. Many points made that we all have at the back of our minds.

      Personally, it isn't a problem I have anymore since I'm working on year 22 to the same tolerant and infuriating guy.