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When You Love Someone . . .

Updated on March 2, 2012

A new relationship.

When you love someone, they don’t have to be perfect. When you love someone you want them to see the good about them that you see in them. You want them to see themselves through the eyes of your love. What could be sweeter? Nothing is more pure than that. I am convinced.

When you begin a new relationship, it should be with a clean slate, or why bother? Everything is new. You are reborn in someone else’s eyes. You have done no wrong, you have not harmed them, they open their arms, and they invite you into their heart. And when it is right, and you are blessed beyond what you ever dared hope, they invite you to join their soul. That’s when you truly become one.

And time will pass. And your love grows, your heart expands. Your soul breathes deeply.

Come into a relationship from a point of personal strength. If you do not nurture your own power you cannot give the best of you to someone else. This is not a position of selfishness, but rather the only way possible to give the best of your complete and devoted love.

When you are safe in your own power, and when you are safe to give the other person their own power, then you know you are one. Then you know you live in a place where the most blessed dwell.

© 2012 Bella Nina


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      Jenn 3 years ago

      There's a secret about your post. ICKYTTIHTBY

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      Bella Nina 5 years ago from USA

      Thx themendiet! I appreciate your comment!!

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      the-men-diet 5 years ago from USA

      Wonderful, especially the last paragraphs :)

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      Bella Nina 6 years ago from USA

      I love that there is no reason for love and that it is breathtakingly amazing!!! Thank you Vinaya and saddle for readibng this hub. I appreciate your comments very much!

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      Vinaya Ghimire 6 years ago from Nepal

      Love does not seek perfection. There is no reason for love, it just happens. Great writing.

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      saddlerider1 6 years ago

      Your words are so very true, the power of love is simply breathtakingly amazing.

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      Bella Nina 6 years ago from USA

      Thank you Posh. I appreciate your reading my hubs, and thank you for your comments!

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      Steve Mitchell 6 years ago from Cambridgeshire

      Nice work.So many nice words.Check out and follow and tell her I sent you. She will almost certainly follow. You have very similar styles.I think you will get on.

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      Bella Nina 6 years ago from USA

      Thank you very much Polly. I appreciate the feedback very much!

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      Pollyannalana 6 years ago from US

      Very good, voted up.