- Gender and Relationships
When Your Best Friend Goes Against you
Good friends are hard to come by and nothing hurts more than a friend who goes against you. How do you deal with it?
If your friend stops being your friend because of what others say then she is not a true friend. Easier said then done but you do not need someone who does not want you. You need to look at all of the amazing qualities you have and say that anyone would be lucky to have you as a friend.
You may think over the years you have been friends and the memories you shared but is it really worth it? It will hurt but don't you want to be friends with someone who appreciates you?
If your friend ditched you for someone else say "your loss." The same if she ditched you for a guy. It will hurt but it will get easier. You will have the memories but one day you will meet a friend who will stand by your side no matter what.