- Gender and Relationships
When one is single
Sometimes life can be so hard. When we are born and are little children we don't always have to worry about how life is because we have our parents and family but things can really change when we become adults. How is it that we can find love when we really need it? Sometimes when we are single, they say to enjoy it and then when we finally have someone, we prefer to be single. I guess it can be a bit confusing, life can be confusing.
Being single has its good sides, you are able to have a good time with your friends and not have to worry about a jealous boyfriend or girlfriend. When one is single you are able to go out more often and if you are the type of person who likes to stay out late then there is no one to stop you. I have friends who say they prefer to be single than married or dating because they have so much things that they go through. They are not always enjoying life as they used to when they were single. So you are able to enjoy your days and life more.
Then when it comes to finally dating, one is so happy because they have someone to love and be there for them. Some people even ge butterflies in their stomache because they know that the person they are dating is the one that they want to be with forever. But when you date the first person you meet, it doesn't always mean that he or she is going to be your soul mate. Some people go through a few boyfriends before they finally meet the one. However, sometimes when it comes to dating, one can go through so much, there is the problem wih jealousy or sometimes the other person wanting to control the other. There is alot that comes with dating but for some just being with that one special person makes them really happy.
My parents say that it is better being single then being with the wrong person and I agree with that very much. But sometimes life is hard and when you see the happy couples around you everyday it can be hard on you. Then those holidays come in which they really promote buying present for the special someone, that doesn't help so much. I think that one can be happily single to a certain extent then there will come a time when that feeling of wanting someone in your life will come. Maybe that is when one starts feeling the need to really want someone in their life.