- Gender and Relationships
When Someone cheat saying ‘..it just happened'
I have no idea why I have taken this title to write; simply I can say that I am sharing what is happening in his life. Today he heard someone saying "I am always with you, loving you, can’t even imagine living without you but….it just happened, not intentional". He heard the whole tale feeling as it was cheating on him but still undecided if he still love and long for, who often play with emotions.
Today when i visited him, he was sitting before her Portrait hanging on front wall of his room. Memories of the past were occupying his thoughts and he was simply wandering without any destination. A long relation had so many things where they stood together facing the whole world. I felt, he still feels her presence in his heart and soul.
Love is certainly something where you can’t think logically. Being logical, we can say that things just don't happen without reason but in love, big things happens and turn fate other way. He still loves her, as his heart is not accepting what his logics are suggesting. He still believes that love is more than anything logical. I also agree that we may not have any reason but still we can love someone with heart and soul.
Is it really so easy to say ‘Let’s start again’? I heard him saying that he is not able to gather sufficient courage to stand and say ‘I don’t bother my dear as I simply love you’. But his eyes are always promising that he will be there waiting for her some day, if felt that she really needed him. He was whispering, ‘I will not ask why you cheated me’.
He was remembering moments when he was expecting few words blended with all love and concern but heard ‘Jaan I did mistake’. Few words stunned his whole existence. He felt like losing the whole world. ‘Why it was done to me’, the simple question struck his mind. He never believed that things happen without reason. I feel, he still have not enough courage to ask why it happened ?
Here I am not putting any question on ethics. I believe in more open and free relations. Everybody has right to live happily and if someone choose to see happiness in someone different, what is wrong. We can say it unethical if it hurts someone’s feelings but life always move for better ones. And I still dare to say that Happiness is certainly big thing in life.
I tried to convince him when he met me today, while I was crossing mirror of my bed room but he is not listening, perhaps not ready to see reality. He is still repeating 'her' words, “Jaan, I love you but ‘it just happened”.