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Where is the love? How to find my other half? Is he/she the person of my life?

Updated on February 22, 2013

Where is my other half?

If you are reading this article there is a good chance you have love to give and don't have the person to receive it. I'm not going to look for a person for you, but I can give you some advice on what you can do.

There is no perfect formula to find the right person, but there are a couple of things you can do to increase your chances.

First of all - Being single is not a crime. Do not feel you are different from others just because you are not in a relationship, some people are, some don't. If someone makes you feel bad for not being in a relationship, don't worry, that person is the one that needs treatment.

Feel confidence in yourself. If you don't like yourself why should someone else? My article How to Be Strong and Enjoy Life might be a good read to help you with this.

Beauty is not an exact science. Different people likes different styles. You don't have to look like a model to get someone to like you, just be yourself.

There is nothing wrong in taking care of yourself. You don't have to be a model to try to look as good as possible. Taking care of yourself will always be a positive thing. Being clean and dressing well is not rocket science.

Go Out. This is probably the most important one. If you stay home all the time you are not helping your case. Apart from the postman you don't get to meet many more people. This brings me to the next one:

Meet People. This can be harder for some people. For this you have to Go Out. :) Never forget that A Smile Goes a Long Way. Why not getting involved in the community? Get involved in the local theatre group, or take some art classes...just Go Out.

If you go out, feel confident in yourself and take some care with your appearance you are in the right road to find someone that will like you. Then you just need to be yourself.

How do I know he/she is the right person?

Being Yourself is the most important thing to find the right person for you. This is where most people fail. Most people try to use "tricks" to get the other person to be attracted. Some tricks might work to get someone interested, but if being yourself wasn't enough there is a good chance that he/she is not the right person for you. The true love exists when two people love each other for what they really are. So, if you show yourself as you are, it might take a bit longer, but there is a better chance that when you find someone he/she will be special to you. Never forget that a person with a tattoo will attract people that likes tattoos.

Love is a two way street. If you want a person to treat you right, why not starting by doing the same? Be nice to people, one of them might be your other half. Don't just judge the image, if you do, don't be surprised if they do the same. 

There is one more thing I want you to think about. Your other half is someone that will share his/her life with you, you will be together forever, share everything. This will be the person you will speak to everyday, buy a house together, have kids...This will be more than the beautiful person you will go to bed with. This will be your BEST FRIEND FOREVER. So, there is a very good chance that the right person is already your best friend.

Good Luck


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      3 years ago

      this is inspiring. thank you.


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