Why He Is Not the Right Person for You (Sad Truth)
He seems like the right person to be with. You enjoy his company. He is the person that occupies your mind from the moment you wake up until before you sleep. You both enjoy each other's company, and while both of you may be fully aware that you are both interested in each other, your circumstances won't allow you to be together.
You are fully aware that this person is making you happy and he may seem like the right person, but you can't risk your situation to be with this person. Is he really the right person for you? Is it really your fate? Why is it so tragic to fall in love by meeting him at wrong time?
The most confused you will ever get is when you try to convince your heart and spirit of something your mind knows is a lie.— Shannon L. Alder
I've had my fair share of hurt by loving someone that I know I will and can never have. While I am fully aware of his feelings for me, and how he loves me, I can't risk both of us to be together. It was like playing a maze without an end, and while I am thinking of many options if we can still be together, it seems like there are really no options for both of us to work it out.
In the end, we end up hurting each other, feeling broken without us being in an official relationship. I've had three cycles of trying to working it out with this person, but each time we fail - or rather - I failed. We will go back to being acquaintances, to close friends, to being rejected and hurt again by our situation and circumstances. We already know that it will be hard to work it out but we kept on trying. The sad truth is I was never sure with this person, though I admit that I have feelings for him. I was doubtful if what we have is worth taking the risk, I ended up looking for the solution alone.
In the end, we endured more pain and suffering than happiness that our love can give us. We finally accepted the truth that sometimes we meet someone and fall in love together, but you do not end up to be together. Mutual feelings don't guarantee that two people can be happy with each other.
The Sad Truth
Meeting the seemingly right person for us at the wrong time is actually the wrong person. One never meets the right person at the wrong time because the right person is enduring. It may be hard to admit sometimes but that is the truth: sometimes we think of someone as being the right person when actually someone that is truly right for us is waiting or someone we haven't met yet.
The right person will make everything right despite the circumstances. Both of you will make everything right - the circumstances, the situation, the timing - because he is truly the right person.
God will bring the right person into your life at the right time. Always believe that! If they are not there, God isn't finished yet!— Shannon L. Alder
The Joyful Truth
Despite all the pain, rejoice! For with the right person, you don't have to wonder if you can really work it out together, you just know. With the right person, both of you will endure the trials together making everything seems right.
Sometimes God will make you wait for the right person to come. He will come at the right moment and He will make everything right on time. Wait joyfully for the time that you will fall in love without being confused. He sometimes makes a plan for us to avoid the people that will hurt us in the long run. Believe that there is something rewarding with life as you go on.
Right person, wrong timing doesn’t mean God was wrong. It means you were there at the right time to fulfill something else. Look for it.— Shannon L. Alder
The joyful gift of time is the present. Focus on improving your life, finding your purpose and working out on yourself. Live by giving grace to Him. Look for the rewards of life that are waiting to be discovered by you. For with the right person, you don't have to wonder if you can make it through. You will be able to make it through - together.
© 2019 Krishna