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Why Love is a waste of time

Updated on January 12, 2012

Love is a fail

To all you "it gets better" girls and "time heals all wounds", and don't forget "my prince charming" girls, here's a secret for you..IT DOESN'T EXIST.

Love is one of the most obnoxious ways to waste your time. You could be doing a million things for yourself and instead you spend all your time taking care of someone who is ungreatful and doesn't seem to care if he hurts you or if he is killing you inside...

Take it from me ladies, Love is a waste...I learned it the hard way by becoming involved with a man who I thought was my knight in shining armor when he really turned out to be prison guard who abuses the prisoner...It was never physical(unless you count pushing and grabbing) but emotional murder...

You see ladies, men are like Parasites. They creep in when your system is down and set up house. They use you for all you are and in the end leave you sick and damaged...

I suppose at one time love may have meant something to some people somewhere in the world, but to even bring up love now is so stupid cause no one can even tell what love is without having a heart breaking story behind it...We think we find the one who will make all our dreams come true then we only realize that those dreams will never be a reality because any hope we had for them is drained out of us by the men who see our dreams as nothing more then something to stand in our way of taking care of them...

If a man says I love you...

Ladies if a man ever says "I love you" that's when you turn and leave, cause of all the bullshi* lines in the world, that one is the biggest. The male mind doesn't register what love is, and even if it did, it wouldn't care enough to be bothered with it cause love doesn't further a mans life...they see it as a way of being tied down and can't have that...

I believed when I was told "I love you" and with those 3 words I sealed my fate for 2 and a half years of nothing but slaving and being treated like crap, but all the while he was saying "I love you" so I let it go...

Don't let it go...Its not worth it...Trust me...

Words of Wisdom

They say there are plenty of fish in the sea, but ladies that doesn't mean go for it. People drown in the sea and people have been known to die while fishing, you understand. Now you may thing I am just tying this as a jilted girl who hates her ex, but I don't, I do care, I do love him...and I know there are women who will read this and feel the same, but this was a warning to girls out there, The very thing we are taught is the most precious thing in the world is also the thing that will cause you the most pain...

A person once told me that I will cry over a lot of guys, but the right guy for me wont make me cry...

I didn't listen at the time, but you know what, it makes sense now...


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    • profile image

      Tistou Blomberg 

      4 years ago


    • kayyluh profile image


      6 years ago

      But when you find true love its the most amazing feeling in the world, not every guy will break your heart. It can happen don't give up on finding that special someone!

    • NiaLee profile image


      6 years ago from BIG APPLE

      Love is a entanglement of feelings, dreams, hopes and fears

      Love is you loving the idea of the other one

      and the other one loving the idea of you

      Where are you?

      Where is the other one?

      Behind a mask?

      Or is one behind a mask and one naked?

      Love is an idea

      If we have the same one we can last

      If we don't we may not

      Or maybe Love is all we do together

      The kissing, the hugging

      The childbearing, the cooking

      The providing, the vacationing

      Love is

      Where are we?

      In or out of Love?

      With or without Love?

      Love is

      Love exist

      Its definition is just not as clear

      Its definition changes from you to me

      From her to him

      Love is

      Are we?


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