- Gender and Relationships
Reasons Some Men Cheat on Their Wives or Girlfriends
He Had Nerve To Cheat In Your Bed? Preposterous huh!
The Word Cheat
First of all, I hope men and women will find this article interesting. I hope that this information is a benefit to many. I use the word cheat because it is the more resentful word to a cheater. Cheating on a spouse or girlfriend is an unfair thing for a man to do. It is taking advantage of her trust.
Lack of Communication Can Cause Cheating
There is no excuse for a man to cheat on his woman. If there is a problem between them then they should attempt to talk thoroughly about it and not allow it to be brushed off. They must allow each other to speak their minds. Remember, communication in a relationship is what it is all about; communicating thoughts now and later with openness and honesty.
Somebody Just May Get Caught!
Not Seeing A Man's Point of View
Now, I’m going to speak from a man’s point of view. Here is a scenario; I want to explain to her how she can please me more intimately. Well, after I start explaining she interrupts and says, “I do not want to hear that or I do not do that.” Well, that cuts him off. He is not allowed to fully explain himself to the point that she understands. This may be one reason why he will be compelled to cheat and have his desire fulfilled elsewhere.
The Lack of Being Heard and Understood
We all need to be heard and understood especially by our mates. One major issue that may lead a man to cheating is that another woman may listen to him more than his own. No, a man should not share a problem between him and his mate with anyone, let alone, another woman. The other woman may not have had any intentions of cheating with him but constant communicating his feelings to the other woman can cause her to get familiar with and attracted to him. He should be allowed without interruptions or anger to communicate his thoughts and feelings to his woman until the situation is clearly understood.
Lack of Keeping Up With His Intimate Needs
He may feel that having sex with his woman has gotten boring. It should never get boring. There are many attributes that go along with the sexual act to make it more interesting. Another partner may do additional things that he likes like, talking to him during the act if not communicating in other ways. In other words, the main woman may want to do more than just the plain act. It is most important to ask him, how and what does he want at that particular time.
Think about it: a man may cheat on his wife because of her being un-lady like. The wife should try to find out what attracted him to her. It could help as a learning experience.
Is Giving Him The Best That You Have Apparent?
Is he getting the best out of his woman every time? The best thing is not to give him a good or bad reason to go elsewhere for pleasure. A man does not go cheating by just talking. He may likely go further than that if the opportunity arises. His mate should always look her best for him no matter what the circumstances are. I can really appreciate that. If he expects the best from her then he should give it in return.
In my research about this I found that women are high I the work force now a days and after putting in eight to ten hours of the day, they may be so tired and cannot measure up on some days to what the husband may desire or the timing may not be right. Well, whose fault is that? Devotion to each other is supposed to be the priority without any excuses.
Faithful Love and Respect
Treating each other with love and respect are the highest treatments to maintain the relationship within. If love and respect exist every day with every encounter including in the most difficult discussions then there is no reason for him to venture outside of the main relationship or marriage.
Even though every one is different, there is no reason not to treat your spouse with what he needs and desires. Educate yourself to treating your mate the best. (No fair getting tired and ending sessions too soon. The “I got a head ache” will have him making plans to cheat. A man’s sexual drive can cause him to cheat with a woman or a different one for every day of the week if he feels a bit neglected. By the way, his woman’s unnecessary insecurity can push him out there too. His woman should solve her insecurity issues before it kills the marriage or relationship all together and finally. There are men that do not cheat but unfortunately, because he may be a people’s person; his woman treats him as if he is. That is falsely accusing him and that also causes neglect to him. I hope this was as realistic in a good sense as life should be.
Give Him So Much That He Has No Room To Receive From Someone Else
What It Took To Get Him Will Take The Same to Keep Him
Look out for the lust. A man can build up lust by altering his thinking and caring away from the one he is supposed to be in love with by alcoholic drinking. That is why most people that consume alcohol cannot believe that they have indulged in lustful acts after they have become sober. Many times there is guilt and regret for such acts. Being yourself in sobriety is the best way for a man to be and he will not get as caught up in unfavorable situations.