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Why Some Women Cheat on Their Husbands or Boyfriends

Updated on June 17, 2016

What Is Done Today Can Backfire Tomorrow


The Label As A Cheater

I hope that this information is a benefit to many. I do not think that a man realizes precisely why a woman cheats on him whether it is one or more men that she endeavors to cheat with. I use the word cheat because it is the more resentful word to a cheater.

Cheating on a spouse or boyfriend is an unfair thing for a woman to do. It is taking advantage of his trust.

Something To Ponder

There is no excuse for a woman to cheat on her man. Perhaps, she has not matured to appreciate the oneness that dwells in love between her and her man. If there is a problem between them then they should attempt to talk thoroughly about it and not allow it to be brushed off. They must allow each other to speak their minds. Remember, communication in a relationship is what it is all about; communicating thoughts now and later with openness and honesty. Do allow low esteem.

Why She May Cheat

Ever heard that “what’s good for the gander is good for the goose?”A woman is very emotional and if her man does not hear her then emotionally she feels justified in telling a listening and more understanding man her problems at home or with her main man. Well, the man should not allow that to happen. A man should take the time to listen to his woman because if not she will go where she can be heard and relentlessly have her desires fulfilled. She is not going to be neglected. She did not desire to venture out of the relationship but perhaps also her main man was too busy working, giving attention to others or even taking her for granted. Well, a man must quickly fix these issues otherwise, she’s either gone or secretly has a man on the side. I would not want another man digging into my sweetness, oh, no.

Many Times She Regrets What She Has Done


Is He Listening To Her With Understanding?

We all need to be heard and understood especially by our mates. One major issue that may lead a man to cheating is that another woman may listen to him more than his own. No, a woman should not share a problem between that is her and her mate with anyone, let alone, another man. The other man may not have had any intentions of cheating with her but constant communicating her feelings to the other man can cause him to get familiar with and attracted to her. She should be allowed without interruptions or anger to communicate her thoughts and feelings to her man until the situation is clearly understood. Women are perhaps, more sensitive than men. They may hurt quicker and deeper. A man should never take his wife or girlfriend for granted. Do not ever think that she will not leave you.

She Has Found A New Attraction

Pay Attention To Her Every Need

She may feel that having sex with her man has gotten boring. It should never get boring. There are many attributes that go along with the sexual act to make it more interesting. Another partner may do additional things that she likes like, talking to her during the act if not communicating in other ways. In other words, the main woman may want to do more than just the plain act. It is most important to ask her, how and what does she prefer at that particular time just like a dinner menu.

The Pain Is Unbearable In Letting Her Go

Can Another Woman Really Take Her Place?

Is she getting the best out of her man all the time? The best thing is not to give her a good or bad reason to go elsewhere for pleasure. A woman does not go cheating by just talking. She may likely go further than that if the opportunity arises. Her mate should always look his best for her no matter what the circumstances are. I can really appreciate that. If she expects the best from him then she should give it in return as well.

Once You Lose Her You May Never Get Her Back Again

The Research

In my research about this I found that men in the work force now a days are putting in eight to ten hours of the day, they may be so tired and cannot measure up on some days to what the wife may desire or the timing may not be right. Well, whose fault is that? Devotion to each other is supposed to be the priority without any excuses.

Having Love and Respect For Each Other

Treating each other with love and respect are the highest treatments to maintain the relationship within. If love and respect exist every day with every encounter including in the most difficult discussions then there is no reason for her to venture outside of the relationship or marriage.

How To Keep Your Spouse From Cheating (Hub Coming Soon)

The summary for this hub is: Even though every one is different, there is no reason not to treat your spouse with what she needs and desires. Educate yourself to treating your mate the best. (Eat healthy. Keep yourself in excellent physical shape. Hanging out with the guys for sports and drinks can make her feel neglected and unimportant. material things do not make up for emotional neglect. No fair getting tired and ending sessions too soon either. A woman’s sexual drive can cause her to cheat with a man or sometimes with another woman if she is neglected enough. By the way, her man’s insecurity can push her out there too. Her man should solve his insecurity issues (if he has any) before it kills the marriage or relationship all together and finally. There are women that do not cheat but unfortunately, because she may be a people’s person; her man may treat her as if she is. That is falsely accusing her and that also causes neglect to her.


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    • Nell Rose profile image

      Nell Rose 3 years ago from England

      Great points here word, women do cheat as much as men, they are just better liars! lol! but if respect is there, then no one will cheat, nell

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      Dana Tate 3 years ago from LOS ANGELES

      I always feel that if I need to cheat it's time to go.

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      Dora Weithers 3 years ago from The Caribbean

      "If love and respect exist every day with every encounter including in the most difficult discussions then there is no reason for her to venture outside of the relationship or marriage." Good point!

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      CrisSp 3 years ago from Sky Is The Limit Adventure

      Bottom line is that love and respect both plays a very important role in any relationship and I like how you have put these two valid points as your finale. Indeed, there is something to ponder about in this very insightful hub.

      Voted up and sharing.

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      Word 3 years ago from Chicago

      Hey Jackie, I'm glad you stopped by and gave such a hilarious comment. I must say it was quite funny. You have a bubbly sense of humor :-)

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      Jackie Lynnley 3 years ago from The Beautiful South

      Some good tips and I am sure good both ways. Strange when I was a little girl I heard bits and pieces of gossip about men but I never dreamed a woman would cheat! lol How the world has changed.