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Why Women May Be The Cause of Most Divorces

Updated on September 30, 2018
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Clive Williams is an internet researcher and writer on many genres. He has a BSc. Degree in Information Systems.

Women Causing Divorce
Women Causing Divorce

Women, you can't live with them and you just can't live without them. They are men's weaknesses as well as their strength. But woman are no way like men. They are wired totally different and see life in a total different way than men do. One of my good pals always tell me that women are emotional thinkers while men are rational thinkers. But what does this all mean in the relationship sphere? Why do women cause so many divorce to happen? Well, follow the love doctor Clive and let us begin the journey of understanding women and divorce.

1. Men Are Tricked.

Even though men are logical thinkers, sometimes they will blast the logic of what their brain is telling them is the right decision and go with the "Oh my God she is so hot." decision. This kind of decision will lead to chaos and breakup with the man end up holding the bitter end of the stick. Let's delve further. A man who is say 60, suddenly finds love in a gorgeous 25 year old athletic body young woman. She professes her love for him by assuring his family and the public that she is no gold digger and the love is real. (We all know that's a fallacy) She let's the old dude go head over heals for her by being the best woman any man could ask for. But she has a void, she feels empty without a ring. The old bag of bones finally popped the question after a year and they get hitched. After a year of marriage, she begins to timely make her young self get scarce for her old husband. She begins to act nothing like what her husband wanted, but more of what her your lover wants. They both decide that it is best if they get a divorce. Of course, the young wife walks away with an hefty sum of money to go spend on her young stud.

This kind of situation occurs too often around the world causing divorce rates to go up instead of keeping the commitment bound in marriage.

2. They Please Their Girlfriends Ego

Men do a lot of stupid things which cause their significant other to be hurt. But many women will not let the man's dumb actions go simply because their girlfriends tell them not to. Women will go to their girlfriends and complain about their husband either not doing enough, have done something terrible like cheating, or probably just keeps on forgetting to take out the trash. The girlfriend will sympathize with their hurting sister. Then they will begin the comparison module. This comparison module works like this:

Broken hearted Wife: " I can't believe John let that woman hug him."

Bad Advice Friend: "He what? my husband would never do anything like that. You best get a divorce and keep on moving."

Women who give this kind of advice are normally home bullies or their life is going through hell and they are looking company in hell. It is best to ditch these friends because they really do not have your best interest at heart.

Women cause divorces.
Women cause divorces.

3. Blinded by Independence

Their are some women who actually believe that they are men even though they live with a husband and probably have a kid or two. They let their sexual and financial independence skyrocket pass their heads and they begin to think way above themselves. They believe that they are tough and born without flaw and things should go only one way, their way. This kind of thinking and acting eventually presses hard on the husbands ego. Especially if the wife begins to insult her husband in scuttle ways. Unless the husband is wuss, if this kind of behavior goes on very long. The man will begin his separation plans by first finding the hottest girl or the closest girl to lay his loins on. Then of course divorce papers will be forwarded with immediate effect.

4. Too God Damn Emotional

Women are too emotional at times and are hasty to make irrational decisions based upon how they are feeling because of a situation. This feeling can last a pretty long time and as such if they irrationally say its over and want a divorce, chances are they will stick to that decision. But let me not be too irrational. Sometimes they do think about things and go back through the abc's and 123's and realize that it is better to forgive, love and move on than to get a divorce and become a statistic of failed marriages.

5. Natural Cheaters

Many wives, especially those up in ages, dream of a young stud coming along to rock his boat on their wave. After all, the husband has grown a huge beer belly and can hardly even move to the kitchen much less satisfy her entirety. Man women in their 40's and 50's have found much younger men than themselves to be in relationships and cheat on their husbands. The thing is, most of these husbands will find out and forgive his wife for wanting to taste fresh meat. But the wife will be relentless in wanting her young stud full time and soon divorce papers will come to her beer belly husband.

Women Cause Divorce
Women Cause Divorce

What Women Must Do to Reduce Divorce Rate.

Women should try practicing thinking logically more often instead of thinking emotionally. Emotions are great, but if not properly controlled can be quite chaotic in any situation. When critical decisions come up to task, women should step back a while, go deep in their husbands head. Ask themselves, what would my husband do if the shoe were switched and do that very same thing. Life is not that complicated when you are a woman who think like a man.

Did You Know?

Wives report more dissatisfaction with their marriages than their husbands? ... A The study, based on a survey of over 2000 heterosexual couples, found that women initiated nearly 70% of all divorces.

Source:https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-new-resilience/201508/women-initiate-divorce-much-more-men-heres-why

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    • dashingscorpio profile image

      dashingscorpio 

      13 months ago

      A AARP survey from years ago revealed that (women) initiate 66% or 2/3rds of all divorce filings in the U.S.

      It has been speculated that better career opportunities and higher incomes for women are a major factor.

      The more options one has the less crap they will put up with! :)

      Seriously previous generations during the 1960s and prior women oftentimes completely relied on their husbands financially.

      A divorce usually meant lowering both the husband and the wife's living standards significantly. In addition there was still a major stigma with regard to being divorced.

      I believe there are three basic reasons couple divorce.

      1. They chose the wrong mate. (They're too incompatible.)

      2. A "deal breaker" was committed in the eyes of another.

      3. They fell out of love/stopped wanting the same things.

      A couple of other interesting studies revealed divorced men are more likely to (remarry) sooner than divorced women.

      A few years ago a woman told me marriage really wasn't about commitment so much as it was about not having a man take up years of her life and suddenly walking away leaving her with nothing to "show for it". Most states guarantee division of assets accumulated in the event a couple gets divorced and social security/pension or death benefits if a spouse dies.

      Maybe the stereotype of men being afraid of commitment is wrong. They're actually afraid of divorce!

      If women really are initiating 2/3rds of the divorce filings that is scary! :) It takes two people to keep a marriage together.

      However it only takes (one person) to end a marriage.

    • Ericdierker profile image

      Eric Dierker 

      13 months ago from Spring Valley, CA. U.S.A.

      Well that leaves a lot to think about. Way too much is spot on.

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