- Gender and Relationships
Why do men juggle two or more women at a time?
He Cheats Because....
Plain and simple a man cheats because he can. The same reason a woman would cheat. We as people love choices and variety. Have you ever went shopping for a shirt? You liked the color, but it was the wrong material, you buy it anyway because you did like the color. You just hung it up in your closet, you may wear it from time to time, but it's not your favorite shirt. So you go back to the store still looking for that perfect shirt. You find another one that's really cute, but it's not the right color but you get it anyway. You take it home put it in your closet, and wear it from time to time. It's still not you favorite shirt. You go back to the store again, still in search of this perfect shirt, but yet and still, they either have the perfect color, but not the right size or the perfect size but not the right color. They could even have the right size and the right color, but it's still not the right material.
Well the moral to this dilemma is that it's really hard to find the right person that has everything already instilled in them. Sometimes we just can't settle for one thing that a person has if there lacking another.
Okay, so you got the nice expanation, but here is the real deal.
Men can be dogs and women can be hogs. Both are grimy animals, but only one is preferred to be eaten. (I thought of that all by myself, I promise)
Anyway, men and women cheat because they can. Life doesn't always go the way we want it. You have to take the good with the bad.
The Makings Of A Cheater
A cheater's intentions is not to hurt you. His intentions at the time is only to satisfy a need. A need that he feels can only be fulfilled by the person whom is arousing him at that time. A man can get aroused by a random nice ass that happens to walk by. It doesn't mean he wants to marry the Bitch. Her ass just happened to turn him on. It's no reason to cheat, but it can be the reason why he cheat. Your ass can be just as nice, maybe even better. A man can be out at the club, see a fine woman and have sex with her. That same night he can come home and you're looking finer than that girl he had sex with and he can lay that same dirty pipe down on you like it ain't nothing. As sad and filthy as it is, 90% of women today are sharing their men.
The End Game
A lot of people will Say, the best way to get over a man is to get under another one. That is good advice, but the remedy is sometimes temporary. A great way to get over a person who cheated on you is to not only move on to the next, but to move on and become a better you by leaving the past where it belongs.