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Why some men cheat on their wives/girlfriend?
A man meets a woman and what’s the first thing that attracts him to her. He is attracted by the way she is dressed; by the way her hair and nails look. He is attracted her sense of style and time she takes to take care of her appearance. Then he gets the courage to approach her and talk to her and he is charmed by her intelligence. The relationship began and lead to marriage. The honeymoon phase has now passed and they both get comfortable with each other and maybe the woman has a baby or two. Time passed and the woman starts letting herself go, she stops taking care in her appearance and maybe she gain weight after having her baby and she stops painting her nails, applying makeup or some gloss. I understand that after having a baby or two it can be time consuming as you have to nurture them and make sure that have are taken care of so much that you get tired.
Boyfriend and husbands cheat because some women let themselves go after sometime in the relationship, some man cheat because women stops doing things that attracted them the first place and so they go out and cheat with women that remind them of their girlfriends and wives when you were still taking time to make themselves beautiful for a date or buy lingerie to surprise them or impress them. Man long for the old you not that they don’t love the new you it’s just that you have let yourself go so much that you don’t even put some lip-gloss to go to the store to buy some bread and milk and some men cheat because they are cheaters.
One part of reason that men cheat it is the woman’s fault and the other it is the man faults but I am focusing on the part that it is woman’s fault. Things that may help to get your husband to be attracted to you are:
1. Go to the salon and get your hair done, get some highlights or change your hair color.
2. Take time to apply make if you do or get a moisturizer that will rejuvenate and make your skin glow.
3. Get a bikini wax if that’s what he like you know what he likes.
4. Shave or wax your legs.
5. Get some lingerie to entice him
6. Get a sitter if you have kids
7. Go out for dinner or prepare dinner for two
8. Wear the little black dress that shows your silhouette
Its not required of you to do the above daily but just remind him of what he has at home.