ArtsAutosBooksBusinessEducationEntertainmentFamilyFashionFoodGamesGenderHealthHolidaysHomeHubPagesPersonal FinancePetsPoliticsReligionSportsTechnologyTravel
  • »
  • Gender and Relationships»
  • Relationship Problems & Advice

Why you should forgive and how ?

Updated on August 4, 2016

Let's take a look on our selfs

So many times we became busy in life and get angry about things happen or people do us wrong.We say '' I will never forgive you '' as it is a threat to the other person.But the truth is that our happiness and life will be threatened and blocked by our hate.It starts so small as a seed ,it grows in our beautiful minds to create a dirty swamp that is hard to remove. Forgivness is essential if you want to continue breathing.

“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.”  ― Mahatma Gandhi, All Men are Brothers: Autobiographical Reflections
“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong.” ― Mahatma Gandhi, All Men are Brothers: Autobiographical Reflections

Be thankful for your past experiences

Yes your abusive mother or school bullies, I want you to forgive those who burned your heart the most ! Because if you continued your life remembering and blaming the things they have done for you , you will miss so much in life.They will keep torturing you in the cage and the way out is forgivness .

You should know that hate and revenge is a dark place like an endless whirlpool. “Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.”
Martin Luther King Jr., A Testament of Hope: The Essential Writings and Speeches

We all know the importance of a relaxed mind so be honest with yourself and until when you are going to not forgive the the one messing up your mind ?


“Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.”  ― Mark Twain
“Forgiveness is the fragrance that the violet sheds on the heel that has crushed it.” ― Mark Twain

Grab a paper and a pen

Now don't waste time and write down a list. WRITE down the names of people you won't forgive ever in your life .

Are you strong enough for this challenge ? Yes you are you are not less than anyone. SAY in a loud voice : '' I forgive ...... although he/she did ....'' .Then say it with your heart not tongue .Repeat this untill the list all ends .You are free now :)

Comments

    0 of 8192 characters used
    Post Comment

    No comments yet.

    working