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How to keep your wife/the loved one happy :P
Everything is about to change!
Everything is about to change!
If i ever learned something about marriage at a young age is that its All About communication! You are no more a single person living on his-her own. Once you get married you are expected to share everything (good and bad) with your partner! Everything is about to change!
I remember in one of our sociology classes the teacher said:" Man is a social being ie can't live on his own. Well, here are the Rules to a happy life with your wife: D !
rule #1: Accept her with all her flaws , and love her for being different. No person is perfect and that's why you have to love and adore her for being simply who she is. Love her!
rule #2: Keep her happy! The concept of happiness is not based on buying your loved girl the most expensive gifts. just speak to her, tell her how you feel stand by her side help her with the dishes or cleaning the house or even taking care of the garden... you name it.. .
rule #3: Cherish every moment with her. For you never know when death claims any one of you. Go out with her, show her to your friends and have quality time together. DON'T let work stop you from enjoying your life with her!
rule #4: Try not to lose you temper as much as possible, since women don't like their husbands to shout or else they will shout back.
rule #5: Go through all the decisions in life with her. She is not just a person not a stranger. Now that you are married she is a partner a part of your life that means that unlike being single you have a partner and a life companion. Thus, going through decisions with her is not a sign of weakness. On the contrary, it is a sign of WISDOM
rule #6: Always be there when she needs someone to hold her and tell her things are going to be okay! Support her in every move and advice her when you believe the course she is taking is wrong.
rule #7:Don't force her to change or do anything against her will. Great changes come when the person is a HUGE BELIEVER! Talk to her .Advice her and explain what courses in life should be taken in life for you and her.
rule #8: Never let your pride stop you from admitting you were wrong! Pride usually is the main reason for fights that can get really nasty (trust me)!
Rule#9: Open up to her and tell her what is bothering you. Keep communicating with her and tell her how you really feel.
RULE #10: Remember life is a cycle, made of ups and downs, good and bad, happiness and sadness. Don’t let a single problem stand in the way to your happiness. Let your problems be tests to prove how much you love her. Tell her no matter what happens " YOU WILL ALWAYS LOVE AND RESPECT HER DECISIONS!" Never feel regret nor show it!
Finally, there is nothing better than being happy with your wife and enjoying your life together! Keep her close to your heart and remember to support her in every manner.
This also applies the ladies as well. And so, it's all in GOD's will! If happiness is written for you Thou' shall be! And if not, don’t let the past stop you from living a full life!
Wishing you all the happiness in your NEW LIVEs!