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Woman Sued By Her Husband, For Being Born Ugly- According To His Standards
Why is the world so hung up on physical beauty?
Low self-esteem is primarily influenced through the media, or by personal expectations regarding the individuals personal appearance. Vanity in today's modern society is a self-damaging epidemic which distorts the mind.
This article contains information on how the quest for physical beauty destroys the mindset of our world.
And how to move past the physical demands of outer- beauty-in order to enter the serenity of self-confidence.
The Price Behind Beauty
The Misconception Of Beauty
Jian Feng Sues His Wife For Being Ugly And Wins A Settlement Of $120,000
Jian Feng sued his wife after she gave birth to their daughter.
Jian could not understand why his young daughter was born so unattractive, according to his personal standards.
Jian later discovered that his wife had $100,000 worth of plastic surgery performed before they met.
Mr. Feng felt betrayed; his emotions lead him to sue his wife, saying that she married him under false pretenses.
Jian won the lawsuit, and was awarded $120,000 in the settlement.
"There is so much wrong with this heartbreaking story, that I don't even know where to begin."
Every parent awaits the birth of their child hoping that their newborn will come out healthy. Disappointed because the child is unattractive, is mentally corrupt.
The sadness that Mr. Feng's daughter must feel knowing that her father finds her unattractive, will set this young child up for years to come trying to find acceptance through the misconception of physical beauty.
Yet, Questions still remain, was Feng's wife wrong for not being up front about her surgery?
Why was the status of producing a beautiful baby left up to Mr. Feng's wife?
What lasting effect will this event have on Mr.Feng's daughter?
The Did Jian Feng Have The Right To Sue His Wife Poll
Did Mr. Feng Have A Good Reason For Taking His Wife To Court Under The Matter Of False Pretenses Concerning Her Looks?
Self-Hatred Starts In The Mind
I have all these feelings bottled up inside me and I don't want to express them with anyone I know because I feel too ashamed and embarrassed by it so I will be sharing it with you.
I also don't tell my parents because I don't want them to treat me differently because it will seem just too fake.
Read more:Self-hatred is becoming a major problem in our society.
E.S. (Emotionally Scarred)
How Ugly Can The Misconception Of Physical Beauty Become?
I am battling through tears as I write this email. I have been overlooked for the third time in a row for a job promotion, and I know it’s because of my looks!
My boss is hooked on airheaded women who dress in revealing clothing. These women are so clueless, I doubt I they can spell the name Bob, backwards. My shallow boss gave these women the positions that I should have, and then he has the audacity, to ask me to train them!
I am so fed up with this form of treatment! No, I am not beautiful by any means! I am the ugly duckling of my family. I am so tired of standing behind beautiful people why they get all the fame and glory just because they look better. Yes, I’m overweight, my eyes are too close together, and I have big feet, however I’m intelligent, and I care about other people.
It is a disgrace the way that ugly people are treated in this world. I don’t know what I am going to do! I feel stuck in a world infatuated by beauty. I don’t fit in. I don’t know what else to do! It’s not like you have a magic wand to make me pretty, I'm desperate for some advice that will give me hope..
E.S. (Emotionally, Scarred)
Hey E.S.! I Got Your Email!
You remind me of a beautiful flower that has been devoured by a spider who has weaved his dark web of deceit throughout your petals. Slowly, you are wilting away.
You described yourself as a cross-eyed, big foot, fat lady. Why are you doing this to yourself?
If your boss is treating you badly talk to him about it. A Closed Mouth Doesn't Get Fed. If your boss can't treat you in a reciprocal manner then report him to H.R., Or find another job.
You keep searching until you find a comfortable job environment that celebrates you and does not tolerate you.
How you treat yourself is far more important than how others treat you. If you had a daughter or a son, would you allow them to behave in such a lowly manner? Please stop behaving so negatively. Stand up for yourself! You need motivation every day, indulge in words of affirmation, read about uplifting people. Your new name is E.S. (Emotionally Secure) :)
Samuel anoints David
One Should Keep In Mind The Prophet Samuel Who Was Looking For The Next King
Samuel the prophet was looking for a handsome man but, wisdom came forth.
'But the Lord said to Samuel,“Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance,but the Lord looks at the heart.'
1 Samuel 16:7
Our Society Feeds On A Misconception Of Beauty Inspired By Three Major Outlets
1. The Internet: Pop up adds that promote beauty products or plastic surgery.
2. Television: Focusing on the desire to be beautiful and what beauty should look like.
3. Music: Some artist sing about seductive women who exploit their bodies.
The Power Of Inner Beauty Is Our Choice.