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Woman Sued By Her Husband, For Being Born Ugly- According To His Standards

Updated on August 28, 2015


Why is the world so hung up on physical beauty?

Low self-esteem is primarily influenced through the media, or by personal expectations regarding the individuals personal appearance. Vanity in today's modern society is a self-damaging epidemic which distorts the mind.

This article contains information on how the quest for physical beauty destroys the mindset of our world.

And how to move past the physical demands of outer- beauty-in order to enter the serenity of self-confidence.

The Price Behind Beauty

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The Misconception Of Beauty

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Jian Feng Sues His Wife For Being Ugly And Wins A Settlement Of $120,000

Jian Feng sued his wife after she gave birth to their daughter.

Jian could not understand why his young daughter was born so unattractive, according to his personal standards.

Jian later discovered that his wife had $100,000 worth of plastic surgery performed before they met.

Mr. Feng felt betrayed; his emotions lead him to sue his wife, saying that she married him under false pretenses.

Jian won the lawsuit, and was awarded $120,000 in the settlement.

Resource: Examiner

"There is so much wrong with this heartbreaking story, that I don't even know where to begin."

Every parent awaits the birth of their child hoping that their newborn will come out healthy. Disappointed because the child is unattractive, is mentally corrupt.

The sadness that Mr. Feng's daughter must feel knowing that her father finds her unattractive, will set this young child up for years to come trying to find acceptance through the misconception of physical beauty.

Yet, Questions still remain, was Feng's wife wrong for not being up front about her surgery?

Why was the status of producing a beautiful baby left up to Mr. Feng's wife?

What lasting effect will this event have on Mr.Feng's daughter?

The Did Jian Feng Have The Right To Sue His Wife Poll

Did Mr. Feng Have A Good Reason For Taking His Wife To Court Under The Matter Of False Pretenses Concerning Her Looks?

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Self-Hatred Starts In The Mind

I have all these feelings bottled up inside me and I don't want to express them with anyone I know because I feel too ashamed and embarrassed by it so I will be sharing it with you.

I also don't tell my parents because I don't want them to treat me differently because it will seem just too fake.

Read more:Self-hatred is becoming a major problem in our society.

E.S. (Emotionally Scarred)

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How Ugly Can The Misconception Of Physical Beauty Become?

Meet E.S.

Dear Emunah,

I am battling through tears as I write this email. I have been overlooked for the third time in a row for a job promotion, and I know it’s because of my looks!

My boss is hooked on airheaded women who dress in revealing clothing. These women are so clueless, I doubt I they can spell the name Bob, backwards. My shallow boss gave these women the positions that I should have, and then he has the audacity, to ask me to train them!

I am so fed up with this form of treatment! No, I am not beautiful by any means! I am the ugly duckling of my family. I am so tired of standing behind beautiful people why they get all the fame and glory just because they look better. Yes, I’m overweight, my eyes are too close together, and I have big feet, however I’m intelligent, and I care about other people.

It is a disgrace the way that ugly people are treated in this world. I don’t know what I am going to do! I feel stuck in a world infatuated by beauty. I don’t fit in. I don’t know what else to do! It’s not like you have a magic wand to make me pretty, I'm desperate for some advice that will give me hope..


E.S. (Emotionally, Scarred)

Emotionally, Scarred


Hey E.S.! I Got Your Email!

Dear E.S.

You remind me of a beautiful flower that has been devoured by a spider who has weaved his dark web of deceit throughout your petals. Slowly, you are wilting away.

You described yourself as a cross-eyed, big foot, fat lady. Why are you doing this to yourself?


If your boss is treating you badly talk to him about it. A Closed Mouth Doesn't Get Fed. If your boss can't treat you in a reciprocal manner then report him to H.R., Or find another job.

You keep searching until you find a comfortable job environment that celebrates you and does not tolerate you.

How you treat yourself is far more important than how others treat you. If you had a daughter or a son, would you allow them to behave in such a lowly manner? Please stop behaving so negatively. Stand up for yourself! You need motivation every day, indulge in words of affirmation, read about uplifting people. Your new name is E.S. (Emotionally Secure) :)

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One Should Keep In Mind The Prophet Samuel Who Was Looking For The Next King

Samuel the prophet was looking for a handsome man but, wisdom came forth.

'But the Lord said to Samuel,“Do not look on his appearance or on the height of his stature, because I have rejected him. For the Lord sees not as man sees: man looks on the outward appearance,but the Lord looks at the heart.'

1 Samuel 16:7

Our Society Feeds On A Misconception Of Beauty Inspired By Three Major Outlets

1. The Internet: Pop up adds that promote beauty products or plastic surgery.

2. Television: Focusing on the desire to be beautiful and what beauty should look like.

3. Music: Some artist sing about seductive women who exploit their bodies.

The Power Of Inner Beauty Is Our Choice.

3 Ways to Boost your Self Esteem

The Society Physical Beauty Poll

Is Our Society Hung up On Physical Beauty?

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'God Loves Ugly: & lLove Makes Beautiful' I got to hear Christa Black's Testimoy Very Inspiring!


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      Emunah La Paz 3 years ago from Arizona

      Hi Arachnea! I was shocked as well by this story! I can't believe he won a settlement over this matter. The claim is very vain I agree.

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      Tanya Jones 3 years ago from Texas USA

      I was blown away by the title and figured there had to be something beyond what the title suggested. Seriously?! Jian Feng is one individual I hope doesn't contribute the gene pool again. Wow!

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      Emunah La Paz 3 years ago from Arizona

      Hi Tarthe I'm in agreement with all of your concerns. You lost me towards the end though, I will consider that you were just kidding. :(

      Hi Word 55! I agree that this woman should have focused on other things. Her efforts to be beautiful birthed a shallow relationship. Thanks for your knowledgeable feedback!

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      Imonikhe Ahimie 3 years ago from Lagos, Nigeria

      Is the guy going to put aside the child? What about his genes? If his genes were so good then they should have overcome the wife's. Who was the judge? Does the guy seriously expect to get another wife? Whats the world coming to? I'm going to bed with my ugly wife!

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      Word 3 years ago from Chicago

      Hi swilliams, I prefer beauty from the inside out. It's unfortunate that such a lawsuit was won. However, God created people. The wife should have focused on being more godly instead of having surgery. Then come as you are... Thank you for sharing*

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      Emunah La Paz 3 years ago from Arizona

      Thanks CyberShelley for breaking this article down. Superficiality is the end result. My heart goes out to his daughter. Thanks for your thoughtful feedback!

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      Shelley Watson 3 years ago

      The article does show the superficiality of the man Jian, and the little depth of character and feeling he has that he could undermine someone he loves and ensure his baby grows up in shame. Very interesting and different article which I enjoyed reading.

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      Emunah La Paz 3 years ago from Arizona

      Hi Hackslap! Yes I agree it oddly funny. This woman mus have been terrified knowing that perhaps the child could take after her, but still to sue your own wife. This is a very scary world but...What can do. Thanks for your feedback!

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      Harry 3 years ago from Sydney, Australia

      I found this a bit funny ... why marry someone if you're going to nit pick on such superficial things? .. one cannot control beyond some measure the way they look or appear .... sadly it is the world we're living in where the media's more and more obsessed with appearances...