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You Can't Make The Bad Boy Good
Some girls have a fantasy of making the bad boys good. While it happens in the movies it does not happen in real life.
No matter how hard you try you cannot change someone. You cannot make the bad boy good. You cannot make the player settle down. If you have that mentality and do things to make that person see that you are the one for him than you are in for a rude awakening. All that it will lead to in the end is hurt and disappointment.
Players are players for a reason. They like to play with a girl's heart and mind. They can't stick to one girl. No matter what you do he will still sleep with other girl's and do his own thing. So if you are with this guy or want to date him, you should know what you are getting yourself into. As much as it hurts to hear you are not the only girl he is seeing. Even if you are in a relationship with him, he cannot be trusted. So move onto a guy you could trust.
Whatever you do, do not sleep with the guy. If you sleep with the bad boy he will see you as a booty call. Sure he will contact you but it will only be on his terms. If he does not want to be in a relationship he will not be in one. No matter what you do or how much you sleep with him. He will have no respect for you.
You could bend over backwards for this guy but it won't be enough. In fact in might never be enough. No matter what you do. You cannot control his feelings. So if you want to hookup with him, know that that is all it ever will be.
Bad boys are not exactly the romantic ones. They are rude, mean and selfish. They will embarrass you and put you down. They will ignore you in public. They will use you and you will get hurt. They will never appreciate you or see what an amazing person you are. They will take you or granted and make you feel bad about yourself. The best thing to do is move on. The ones that you should be going for are the sweet ones.
Whoever said that the bad boy was fun and the nice guy was boring is lying. The nice guy is the one that you want to be in a relationship with. He is the one who will be with you there to the end. You know you could always count on him and he will make you feel as if you are the only girl in the world.
If you are with a bad boy forget about him. I know it is easier said than done but save yourself the heartbreak. Be strong and be ready for the good guy. He is out there and he will make your life so much more happier.