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How do you know? whether you are in love?

Updated on April 1, 2012

"Love" its a wonderful feeling. Being loved and to love is the greatest gift to mankind by god in this world, there can be hardly any one, who say they haven't loved any one.

Love has been ruling the world since ages.

Lets see how do we, come to know about we are in love?

Flying High....

The feelings in heart become inexpressible. It gives a full bottle of kick to you, almost a hangover. You start believing that world is a very small place to live. You feel like this is enough for the life, and need nothing else. You fly in colors, when you imagine the one you love. Dreaming about the loved one becomes inevitable.

Thought process.....

You start relating everything with loved ones. Your comparison becomes so intense, that you believe his/her deeds are in response to your love. You feel that there is some connecting power in between you and your loved ones making you become close to him/her. What ever you do you are with her always this happens unconsciously. You start day dreaming. You do not respond to others easily. Ever other thing in this manly world, become less important to you. You feel like relieved from all your problems with one glimpse at your loved ones. And your loved ones will be the first and last thing in your mind in a day.


- You like to know more about loved ones.

- You feel very good about yourself.

- You don't even a single negative thought about him/her.

- You always feel like seeing this person or spending hours together thinking about this person.

- You even believe that your feelings are reciprocated by loved ones.

- You believe that he/she is born for you.

Some other feelings would be, you feel like more confident than ever before, feel great about yourself, at times you might also feel like confused.


You always love to talk about this person with friends, colleagues, family and everyone near and dear to you. You start praising him/her even for minor achievements. You can't imagine a life without him/her. You become possessive about your loved ones, and you say that "No one knows him/her better that you".


You criticize those who speak against your loved ones and you think that they are real crazy people having no idea about life. You may even say "They don't know the value of love". Actually you act a little crazy and swim deeper into feelings of love to sense happiness. You believe that you are Romeo to your Juliet. You don't even care about neighbourhood most of the times


You expect her hug and wanted to runaway to a lonely planet. When she touches you a gentle electricity passes all through your body only you feel it, which makes you feel that you are flying higher and deeper. You will try to make a better physical appearance.

Finally Your Heart say's.....

"Die for her any number of times and reborn at least once to gain her love".


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      Glo L Bernadas 5 years ago from Philippines

      You know you're in love when you are able to forget about yourself and think only for the good of the other person. And the greatest expression of love is to lay down your life for a friend (John 15:13)

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      bharath.adupa 5 years ago from India

      Thank you. This hub is out of my personal experience i guess i have seen all the extremities in love and still thriving for more.... love is an end less ocean..

      A special thank you to Eiddwen.

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      Sueswan 5 years ago

      I think true love has to start as a friendship and build from there.

      Voted up and awesome.

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      Eiddwen 5 years ago from Wales

      Oh a wonderful hub and yes love has to be nurtured and maybe some times of adjustment are also needed.

      However if it is true love then it will grow and thrive to become a stronger bond which will last forever.

      Take care and enjoy your day.


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      Rosemary Sadler 5 years ago from Hawkes Bay - NewZealand

      Love is a wonderful thing, but needs to be nutured to keep it growing.

      A lovely hub

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      KatrineDalMonte 5 years ago

      Love is the greatest gift in our life. Being able to experience true love, where one soul lives in two bodies is a miracle of heavens, we have to take care of it and appreciate it.