How to keep your man happy?
Some people will get excited by this topic – ‘How to keep your man happy’ and some will not. Why would we keep our man happy, that is his own responsibility? Right! … Now, let me twist and add some extra words to the sentence ‘How to keep your man happy’; let me write it this way ‘how would you evolve as a better and happier human being and simultaneously creating a happier life for your husband/lover’. How about this? I know all will like this idea as it involves ‘your’ happiness. Correct!
Respecting people’s time reading this, I will be very succinct and direct in my approach and will tell my readers through different scenarios as how to keep both of you as a team happy together. These methods are tested and practically applied to; my life (over 10 years of marriage, happily married), my parents live (40 years of marriage, happily married), and my grandparents lives (over 60 years of marriage, happily married).
‘High-value’ is a very subjective term to use. So, I will be using the term ‘An evolved woman’ instead. It may carry the same meaning for the readers. But for me, ‘An evolved woman’ is a woman who tries to keep her and her family happy through respect and love, and mentally challenges herself to evolve as a better woman each day till her death.
Now let’s come directly to the topic.
Presented below are some ideas, examples, as ‘’How to keep ‘you’, ‘your family’, and ‘your man’, happy”. These are the tips which was passed from generations to generations in our family. I will only disclose 3 of those in this blog and will reveal the rest, slowly, in my following posts, on my readers demand.
A) IDEA-1: Let him calm down after he comes from wherever he went (may be work, to market, to friend’s home, anywhere) and then discuss your problems, wants, ideas, etc. etc.
Example: After your husband comes from a busy day’s work open the door with a happy face (even if you are unhappy), ask him if he needs water. Let him freshen up, let him eat something (he might be hungry), then once he comes to his comforting self, discuss with him your problems, wants, and desires. Slowly discuss one after another and listen to what he has to say. Ha.