I'm still not completely out. I have been coming out in steps and it's been and up and down battle. Most have been accepting but I have lost a few friends. Obviously they weren't true friends though. I'm not out at my new job and there's a girl in my dept who is anti-gay and it hurts. My parents don't know yet. It's very hard and always a personal decision. DON'T LET ANYONE DECIDE FOR YOU.