What is he like? Does he treat you well and spend quality time with you, or do you find it hard to get him to hang out with you often? Does he seem shady at all or blow you off? If it's the first situation, he may be as unsure of things as you are. Ask him how he views your relationship and where he sees things going. If you just started talking, make it seem casual and non-pressuring. If it is the second situation, I would advise you to be weary of him. If all he wants is the hook-up without actual commitment, and you want to be in a relationship, think long and hard about whether or not this guy is right for you. Ask him what he wants to do, and if those things don't meet up with what you want or don't seem to be happening in the future..move on, girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea, so don't waste all your time on one when there may be someone better around the corner. Hope I helped, and if you need any more advice let me know!