It's a good idea to leave her be if she has a new boyfriend. Best you can do is tell her how you feel and then leave her alone. Her new relationship may or may not work out but life gets too complicated when you get involved with someone who is in a relationship, let alone when it's your ex. My advice would be to stop all contact, and stop worrying if she's sad with her new guy, and concentrate on your own life.
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