you pick the guy and the one you picking care about sex with you more than being with you. I,m sure you seen many many guy that you never gave a chance to and one of them may want a relationship or be the one for you. the sign of the time today is looks and if not looks then he got to have money and if a woman with a man for money than she a whore to that man . any relationship TAKE TIME. that why it call a relationship. there are plenty of men that looking for that. sex is good but make no mistake about this. it way better with someone you love and they love you the same or more.