WHY?? would you want to "TRAP" anyone into a relationship with you?? Much less something as serious as marriage??
If you are a person with thoughts and feelings of wanting to trap your boyfriend into marrying you....STOP....you need counseling, not marriage.
Know that EVEN IF you were to suceed at such a crazy plan. Neither of you would be happy.
You are trying to fill a need that is psychological.
It can only be resolved when you come to understand WHY you do this. How destructive it is, and how you can meet your inner needs, without destroying lives, or making BAD choices.
There are many places you can get free couseling. Open your phone book and look-up your local City, County, or State Services or call a Helpline for further direction.
There are people out there who really care. They try to help other people for a living. They have so much love to give, and that's how they let it out in a responsible way.