Foxy girl, I am so glad I am on Hub Pages so I can help out girls like you! I have now been married to a wonderful man for almost a year and recently I was reading some messages between guys from when I was single. I was astonished at how much I over-analyzed, was always the first to make contact, etc. Guys are straight forward. Not only is it difficult for them to read signals, they also have a hard time giving out signals. (Of course there are always exceptions, I am saying this as a blanket generalization.)
As females we are born with that subtle craft of flirtation and dropping hints so we look for guys to do the same. I am telling you right now that there may be exceptions, but as a general rule, if a guy likes you he will ask for your number or he will ask you out. Don't make the mistake I did of spending so much time wondering, worrying and going after guys that are not worth the time! You deserve someone who likes you enough to make it clear that he likes you.