I feel that, a couple is made in heaven and there is no such thing as a formula to find out your best soulmate. However we cab do small things such as meeting up with people with same hobbies, interests and view point of life. Hanging out in places where we are most likely to find out that person. If you are a reader, you can go to a library; if you are an adventure person set out on sail and camping; if you like partying and having fun with friends, attend some functions and go to the clubs, bars etc. The list can go on forever. But really matters at the end is whether you have found out the correct person whom you want to spend your whole entire life with. So, i guess its better to concentrate on finding that one person whom you are made for rather than searching for some mantra's and formulas to find your soulmate. When it has to happen, it will and even you will not be able to stop it.