hmmm dont know if its as much a secret as it is common sense.
All the things that we are or should be taught as children growing up like: being honesty,compassionate,trustworthy,not to mention treating others with respect and kindness.And how about letting those we choose to allow into our lives know how wonderful they are,and how much they mean to us, then theres that thing called access to your inner most thoughts,dreams, feelings.
remember the little things mean the most!
I think love is wonderful.Its very hard to mistaken it for something else.The feeling of knowing that no matter what that special someone who you adore,adores you too! The way he or she makes your heart flitter just ever so slightly when you hear their voice.That feeling of "im home" when your eyes meet eachothers gaze. The warm sensation and feeling of safeness when you smell their scent. The way your body tingles when they simply touch your hand. That simple comfortableness that you feel when your cuddling. Love is the best thing ever, and even better when it is recipricated.