Remember that your woman will always multiply and make better whatever you give her...
Give her your sperm - she'll give you a baby
Give her a house - she'll make you a home
Give her some food - she'll make you a meal
Give her a smile - she'll give you her heart
So if you give her any cr*p...be prepared to receive a whole ton of sh*!
But seriously, the key is appreciation - make her feel like you appreciate everything she does to support your relationship, your home, you family. Make her feel appreciated and she'll also feel respected, valued and loved - she will take a bullet for you.
And never EVER underestimate the value of a hand brushing across her back as you pass in the hallway, or a big squishy cuddle when you come home at the end of the day, or sweeping hair out of her face when she's busy. This is what we like to call a "gesture of love" - nope, it's not foreplay.