This is a very difficult one to answer. The best way to determine if you both are ready to become intimate is if you both feel comfortable enough to have sex. I have dated all kinds of people who I slept with after a couple of months to the first 2 weeks. It also depends on you and how you both feel about it. In this world scarily surrounded by STD's you definitely want to be prepared and you know what I mean. But for emotions sake, you both need to be comfortable enough to take the plunge. If you think you might not be ready wait. There is no rush to sex because of the unbeleivable about of pressure the world puts on us to be sexual. Don't get wrong I am a very sexual person but if I feel uncomfortable it ain't gonna happen so be honest. You will find you will have the best of both worlds. Best Wishes!!!!