Ladies & Gentlemen:
I have been asked "What, there are not good enough men in Toronto?" after I have said that "I don't have a right pool of men to choose from". Or a pool of right men.
However ... Since I meet most men on a dancing floor in clubs, there are enough of them who are athletic. Not necessarily looking like Greek Gods, but quite appealing .... No, they don't remover their shirts for most of the time...
I cannot complain when a man has a great physique. Beauty is beauty - when a woman is beautiful or a man is beautiful it is a pleasure.
Plus, if a man is a lover, it gives an advantage, if it gives an advantage... Physical strength is a plus, but it does not substitute other skills.
In short, I won't mind if more men worked out (not excessively), but if they cared more about their bodies.
But in addition to having a great mind. I know ... I am asking for too much - but those things are not necessarily mutually exclusive.