My spouse and I have come so far! We have to really work on being consistent and being supportive of one another and uplifting each other no matter what the conditional circumstances. Anyway, my husband knows how to compliment me and make me feel so beautiful when I need it. He especially knows how to serve me, picking up the slack when I'm about to lose it; that makes me feel valued. He also helps around the house and with the kids, which makes me feel so good (loved)!