It's not a question of loving a woman more. I personally believe that someone in a family, (2 would be better than one) should know how to cook for budget purposes. Also, it makes the holidays a bit more special. (and frustratingly difficult) Many men aren't interested in learning how to cook as it is a subtler art than say... changing the oil on the minivan. That being said, every husband should know how to fix hamburger helper and possibly... grill a steak. I personally prefer cooking over mowing or gardening while my husband would rather mow, so we divide the labor that way.