This is easily answerable. First of all you have to throw sexual myths out of the door. Second, you have to stop worrying about your fear of worrying about young, white males being pissed off at you and wanting to beat you up. Thirdly, you have to throw the poison of the media out of your thoughts.
Men and women are similar in so many ways, but they are so different in other ways. A 70 year old woman telling me jokes and being very charming would curl my balls into the back of my underwear. But an older man doing the same thing to a younger woman can inspire lust, passion, and desire. For sure it is not the same lust as she might get by looking at a hard body man with a great body, but women are not exactly like men.
She might feel so comfortable around the older man that she can't help herself. If he is charming like a poet and takes her on a wonderful journey of stories, words, poetic musings, and humor, she might feel so comfortable around him that she feels totally at ease lying in a bed and.......
We don't talk about these things because the poisonous media gets mad. Also, the hot young studs who don't he laid get angry. In addition to that, our eyes don't like the meshing of beautiful, young, virgin skin meshed with an old wrinkly guy. But to a woman it is a whole different ball park.
I can't tell you all the women that have honestly told me that they have been with a 65 year old plus man. My advice.....get over it. It's a fact of life. You don't like the image in your mind? Too bad. What are you gonna do? Legislate age laws on sex when a woman is over 21 and can think for herself? Ridiculous.
What you have to remember is that there are a few select women that can see through the plastic muscle man, and the rich CEO. They want something deeper. Someone who understands them completely. The sad tale is that it takes many years of bedding women to become the man that understands them completely. When a woman meets an older man like that, she understands him completely.
Don't cry about it. It is what it is. Sorry, I didn't create biology. Also, take a look a Neil Strauss (kudos Neil). He's a bald buy and is considered one of the most seductive men on the planet. If you saw his picture you'd think. "Huh? He looks like one of those weird guys that always tried to talk to me in college." But if you saw a picture of his girlfriend you'd faint. She is one of the hottest women on the planet.