Some women are serious about love and some are shallow. The shallow ones will live off of your money so they dont have to work. They eventually get bored with their carefree life and start spending your money on lots of shoes and purses, they will realize it isnt making the happier, so they will cheat on you. The serious ones will be with you for the love, and usually have jobs of their own to keep them busy. Also to be able to tell if you are falling for some shallow b**ch, dont get married because she made you, that is usually because she really wants to get at your money. But if the two of you want to married together then its probably more serious.