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Did I ruin the relationship by being too demanding?


I have been dating my 38 year old boyfriend for 11 months. I am 34. I felt very sure that he was the one. He travels a lot for work - much more than he told me - and I get insecure when I don't hear from him regularly. He doesn't want to Skype, is often too tired. After his latest 6 week trip I pushed a little too hard and asked if he wants to continue with this job when he has kids. It ended up turning into 'the talk', but it went badly. He doesn't think 11 months is long enough to know. I harped on about babies and not wanting to be strung along. I wish I could just be my happy self but anxi

 

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