"Actions speak louder than words"
How do you let someone know you love them? Most of us are looking for someone who expresses their love for us the way WE express love.
Sometimes when a person is not saying or doing the things we want then we question their love of us.
However in reality it may be they are just not "the one" for us.
Remeber there is no "right" or "wrong" way to express one's love. There is only what is "right" or "wrong" for YOU!
If you aren't getting what you want then you have to decide if this is the person you could spend your life with. People change when THEY want to change. If you don't trust their words or actions then move on.