Have you ever looked at your 'Ex' and thought - was I drunk the entire relation

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   rikabothraposted 12 years ago

   Have you ever looked at your 'Ex' and thought -  was I drunk the entire relationship?

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   Evil Stepmotherposted 12 years ago

   Well, I know I wasn't drunk all that time because I am not a drinker, but I do look back at the exes I sometimes see and wonder what I was thinking.  I am no longer attracted to them, of course, and I cannot see how I ever was.  I do not know why I put up with the things they did.  Even if I was single, I would not date them now.

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   renegadetoryposted 12 years ago

   Lol... that's funny. I always ask myself, "what was I thinking??"

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   Hunbbel Meerposted 12 years ago

   If I would think like that then I will regret a lot more. As it will tell me how stupid I am that I am regretting over a thing that I once wanted, 'the most in my life'. I think we should not think like it. A good relation gives us a companion, a bad relations gives us a lesson. We should go along with it.

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   selfdefenselessonposted 12 years ago

   Who hasn't..
   
   Thought it's never been a physical thing for me. It was more the behaviors that I accepted from her.. Being a bitch so to speak. Oh well lesson learned.

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   RavenBikerposted 12 years ago

   Haha!  Yeah, I was drunk when we met.  He stayed drunk and I sobered up 5 years later.  Now I think, "what did I ever see in him?"  Best thing, though, he served time for a federal offense and all our friends we had in common are now my friends---not that I care either way---our split was about 25 years ago.  The crime occured in the last five.
   
   I think it's important to remember that your ex turned into during and after the relationship ended, has nothing to do with you as a person.  Furthermore, its not a relection of your more important decision capabilities.

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   Jennie Demarioposted 12 years ago

   this is too funny. i must have this conversation at least once a night when friends see there ex's out LOL.  is it rude to say "i told you so" to your friend as a response??

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   Silverspeederposted 12 years ago

   I am absolutely sure she put something in my drink!

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   stanwshuraposted 12 years ago

   I'm only responding to tell you that your question is "laugh your ass off" funny!

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    danielleantoszposted 12 years ago

    yup, and I think that every time I see him!

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    lostwithinmyselfposted 12 years ago

    LOL .... Yes i have thought this. I look at them and think did i really spend all them years with you!!
    I must of been in a very bad place at the time with some of my ex's i tell ya. There is only one ex i do not think this about. x

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    Stephilibooposted 12 years ago

    Haha... I always say that I was slipped hallucinogenics!

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    stricktlydatingposted 12 years ago

    Yes I've thought something similar to that.  Just the "What was I thinking" type throughts when I've seen an ex.

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    your cybersisterposted 12 years ago

    My question to myself is "What did I ever see in him?"  Sometimes I just kind of stare at him when he is talking to me and try to see even a glimpse of whatever might have made me think that he was "the one".  I only wish I could blame alcohol...

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