1. Physical attributes (The initial attraction without words)
2. Personality & Sense of humor (Chemistry)
3. Mutual interest in one another and ("Naturally agree" on major things in life.)
Most men aren't looking for a woman to financially take care of them.
We don't place as much stock in a woman's career or income as some women place on men. A common mistake a lot of women make is they believe having a high powered job with a high salary will either attract or intimidate men.
The truth of the matter is if we think you're (hot and fun to be around) we don't care whether a woman is a hostess at a restaurant or a lawyer! Her personality is way more important than her career or education.
A lot of successful women tend to play up their accomplishments and they are shocked that men aren’t "excited" about them. The “bait” they’re using is what one uses to attract WOMEN and not Men!
Every "hunter" knows the smartest thing to do when going hunting is to bring "the right bait." You don't get to tell the "prey" what they (should be) attracted to!
I believe everyone has their "ideal or dream" person they'd want to date or marry.
However one trip to the mall, beach, park, or movie theater...etc and you will see men with women of all shapes and sizes, hair color, eye color, breast size....etc
With close to 7 Billion people walking the planet there is a very good chance there's at least one person out there for everyone!