all i can say is "YOUR MAKING THINGS COMPLICATED"..as im reading at the early part of your question..i should tell u to call off the engagement and pursue with the other guy..untill i finish the last part, of which the new guy is married..i laugh to that lolss...your vulnerable at this stage...maybe you find that your " in love" with the new guy, do you don't really..your just enjoying his company..and your comfortable with this new guy since you are always with him cos he is your manager the boss..it is like a routine thing..give your self a break...if you don't love or can not trust your fiancee break off with him..and for your new married guy lover...break off with him too..i know its easier said and done..but if you don't like complications...get rid of him...your the one who says that ' YOU ALWAYS HIDE" everytime you go out...why even complain???..you know your rightful place,,your a "MISTRESS" sorry but that is what you are right now,,"NO GUY IN THEIR RIGHT MIND SPECIALLY IF THEY LOVE THEIR FAMILY" TO BRAG OFF IN PUBLIC THEIR MISTRESSES"'..MISTRESSES ARE ALWAYS HIDDEN ANYWAYS.."BESIDES..DON'T EXPECT TOO THAT HE WILL INTRODUCE YOU TO HIS WIFE AND CHILDREN""' lolsss....never mine if you truly love the guy..your married lover just want to have a taste of another dish..and after his done to you..goodbye...he got 2 kids, no guy won't leave his family for another girl...maybe other will just take sometime to be with the mistress but in the end they will go back to their family..."DON'T BE A HOME WRECKER"..your a woman too..and NO GOOD MAN..would ever cheat his wife and family..so don't you ever think he loves you..granted he loves you for argument sake..but for how long,since he even cheats his family for another girl...so what makes you think he will be loyal to you.."YOUR A GIRL TOO"..do what is right..my main concern here is for the children who will get affected of the selfishness of 2 people..i don't like any children to get through that..have time to think..CONTEMPLATE!!!..GOD BLESS YOU!!!..remember LIFE IS SIMPLE..DONT'T MAKE IT COMPLICATED!!!
p.sALL MEN WHO HAVE A MISTRESS SAYS THAT
I AM NOT HAPPY WITH OUR MARRIAGE
WE ARE GOING ON A DIVORCE
SO WE CAN BE TOGETHER IS A BIGGGGGG LIESSSSS
JUST TO GET INTO THE PANTS NOTHING MORE THAN THAT
try to put your self in the place of a wife who gets cheated
i am sure you would not like it too!!!
that is why you get PISSED BY THE LYING OF YOUR FIANCEE RIGHT????
then if your CHEATING NOW !!
it is like saying to your fiancee
i love that your cheating on me!!