My daughter is an Aries and I've loved an Aries male. One thing about them is that they can be as angry and upset as Mars himself one moment and in the next couple of moments, not even remember what it was which upset them. They live almost entirely in the present moment, so if it passes on without your prolonging it, they're OK.
However, if an issue really takes root in them, it becomes entrenched and virtually immoveable. Not good to arouse their negativity whether it's quickly over or lasts. They have intense feelings and reactions and are usually physically strong enough to make them felt.
They respond best to calm common sense when upset, not more high-voltage reactions from others. Even if they're itching for a fight, don't give them one. You'll be prolonging the present situation for them and then you'll be the one to regret it, more than likely. Good luck.